'' Hard time of your life ''

[Siimon]

ALRIGHT, I keep hearing that puberty is a hard time in your life for whatever reason .. now why is this? your body is developing? I got a few issues and I wanted to know if this is because of puberty and the '' rough time '' so here it goes.

- Stressed ALL the time, got to do this got to do that got to remember this got to remember that, my mind is blowing up!

- Depressed, I guess you can say I am a little depressed

- Frustrated Constantly frustrated


Right, I wake up early mornings to get dressed and go to school without breakfast, I come home from school after 4 hours to eat dinner, just for 20 mins then I return to school, I am in school 8 hours a day, I come home with LOTS of home works as I am in 8Th grades I got like 4 examinations a week, even though it's not allowed, so I come home tired with all of this on my mind, I open up the PC and go trough 4-5 forums, I got to have time to watch The Sopranos, play GTA, play CSS, go on YouTube, manage my mafia wars account go on YouTube and watch a bunch load of videos, listen to music, then I got like 10 shows to watch on TV on different times, then I got a shit load of dishes to do because my mom works all day and she sure as hell does not like coming home to dishes, then I constantly think of school and my feature and what I want to be, I want to be a rich man - I want to be a rapper - I want to own a sports bike and do stunts - I want to be a gangster from the ghetto and rob banks() - I want to be a Cop AND SO ON, on top of this I got anger issues so my mind is loaded and is about to blow up so I am frustrated and mad so sometimes I slap my self or punch me and it really hurts I mean I am a big guy, 1,88 meters in 8th grade and I've got some muscles as I work out alot to get rid of the anger but I am still angry but tired so it's all even more fucked up so this shit can't be puberty .. BUT WHAT do you call my situation?(Sorry if I am in the wrong section)

Here is some things that might help you answer my question

- I get 8 hours of sleep

- I eat no breakfast

- Anger issues

- Depressed cause of my past

- Spend alot of time on the PC



Here is some answers that I expect to get that I wish not to get pleasethx-

''Oh HAHA, you sound like a girl babble all this shit you just said when you ask her how she feels ''

Well .. that's the only answer I expect but I don't want it thanks and oh for the record i am a GUY!


thanks for answers

[Zeus.]

Originally Posted by Siimon

ALRIGHT, I keep hearing that puberty is a hard time in your life for whatever reason .. now why is this? your body is developing? I got a few issues and I wanted to know if this is because of puberty and the '' rough time '' so here it goes.

- Stressed ALL the time, got to do this got to do that got to remember this got to remember that, my mind is blowing up!

- Depressed, I guess you can say I am a little depressed

- Frustrated Constantly frustrated


Right, I wake up early mornings to get dressed and go to school without breakfast, I come home from school after 4 hours to eat dinner, just for 20 mins then I return to school, I am in school 8 hours a day, I come home with LOTS of home works as I am in 8Th grades I got like 4 examinations a week, even though it's not allowed, so I come home tired with all of this on my mind, I open up the PC and go trough 4-5 forums, I got to have time to watch The Sopranos, play GTA, play CSS, go on YouTube, manage my mafia wars account go on YouTube and watch a bunch load of videos, listen to music, then I got like 10 shows to watch on TV on different times, then I got a shit load of dishes to do because my mom works all day and she sure as hell does not like coming home to dishes, then I constantly think of school and my feature and what I want to be, I want to be a rich man - I want to be a rapper - I want to own a sports bike and do stunts - I want to be a gangster from the ghetto and rob banks() - I want to be a Cop AND SO ON, on top of this I got anger issues so my mind is loaded and is about to blow up so I am frustrated and mad so sometimes I slap my self or punch me and it really hurts I mean I am a big guy, 1,88 meters in 8th grade and I've got some muscles as I work out alot to get rid of the anger but I am still angry but tired so it's all even more fucked up so this shit can't be puberty .. BUT WHAT do you call my situation?(Sorry if I am in the wrong section)

Here is some things that might help you answer my question

- I get 8 hours of sleep

- I eat no breakfast

- Anger issues

- Depressed cause of my past

- Spend alot of time on the PC



Here is some answers that I expect to get that I wish not to get pleasethx-

''Oh HAHA, you sound like a girl babble all this shit you just said when you ask her how she feels ''

Well .. that's the only answer I expect but I don't want it thanks and oh for the record i am a GUY!


thanks for answers

1. It is totally and 100 percent normal to feel stressed and worried during puberty. Hormones are raging and mood swings are going to be common. That is just what happens.

2. Get uses to school, it is only going to get more and more difficult. Be thankful you only have what you have right now. Plus it still beats working a job full time.

3. Eat breakfast. Seriously. It is really a important boost of energy and nutrients you are losing by missing it.

4. Try to find some after school activites that interest you and something that can help occupy you and keep your mind off things.

5. You gave me a schedule of a whole bunch of sedentary activities that should be done in moderation when time is alotted. Your day should not be planned around getting on the computer and certain tv shows.

6. It is really good that you want to be successful when you are grown and that you have a bunch of dreams to shoot for.

7. Stop hitting yourself. You have done nothing wrong, you are just a normal typical teenaged boy trying to get by. So be happy and enjoy your adolescence.

[gucciiva]

My advice too - eat breakfast. It's really unhealthy not to eat it.
You'll be stressed, aggresive, anxouis etc even after pubarty (maybe even more because thean REAL problemes come).
So... try to relax, try not to hurt yourself and not to overanalize things. Go with a flow I would say.

[Serious-Citrus]

Its just stress. You need to take time to cool off. Get time to yourself. Every day dedicate at least a half hour of time where you do and think about nothing. These little mini vacations can help you get through the day.

[Suzanne]

People say puberty's a tough time because it's difficult for many people to get used to the changes that their body is going through.

It sounds like you're just stressed, which isn't something exclusive to puberty. You should definitely eat breakfast and/or bring a snack to school. You'll have more energy. Also, it sounds like you devote a LOT of time to the computer. Try cutting back a bit on school nights. If you have a lot of homework, try breaking it up throughout the afternoon and take small breaks of 15 minutes or so. This way you won't feel overwhelmed by all of your homework at once. Also, if you finish all of your work early, you can spend time on the computer without having to worry about your work.

You have a lot of dreams for the future and that's good (other than wanting to rob banks). Don't worry if it seems like there's way too many things that you want to do. You're still young and you'll have plenty of time to figure it out. Most people don't even know exactly what they want to do when they're in college.

[hehe]

Some of what you describe is just puberty. Other things you describe are making things harder for you but are fixable.

Stress and frustration are normal during puberty, and throughout life, for that matter, but there are steps you can take to limit those feelings. Exercise, music, and writing can all be great stressbusters, and you may find something that works well for you. Getting away from your PC for a little bit and doing one of those things might help out. Furthermore, if school is stressing you out, try to plan things out so you know when work is due. Stay on top of things (even if that means less computer time); that won't eliminate stress, but it'll help.

Teenagers can be prone to depression. If you are depressed, I'd recommend seeing a counselor or psychologist to talk things through and get to the core of your depression. If you're just a little blue, though, try figuring out why you're upset and think of what you can do to change that. A psychologist or counselor could also help you with your anger issues. Either way, both will require some actions and willingness on your part to make things improve.

Also, eat breakfast. It gives you a good start to your day: lots of energy, a good feeling, etc. Furthermore, by not eating breakfast, you're more likely to snack on junk food later in the day, which may make you feel worse. While breakfast can be something traditional like cereal or eggs or toast, it doesn't have to be. It can be leftovers, it can be a peanut butter sandwich, it can be a grab-and-go cereal bar. But eat something. You don't have to take long, either. You can have breakfast in under five minutes if you need to, or if you're really strapped for time, you can pack it in your backpack and eat it on the bus. Getting into the habit of eating breakfast everyday will go a long ways towards making you healthier and less prone to the frustrating pangs of hunger and the junk food you're more likely to eat when skipping breakfast.

[2cocoalove]

i think your situation is just about all teenagers. im in the 9th grade and i have tons of homework, hours of band practice every week, and i never sleep. everyone is stressed about something.