cant do it

ZanderZab · Nov-28-2009, 03:08 PM

my friend said that he has gay feelings about many guys and he wants to have sex with them. a few times he actually had the chance to but then couldnt bring him self to do it. my friend is curious i think, not gay. but could this hesitance be because he doesnt want to actually do it?

Dolphus Raymond · Nov-28-2009, 04:08 PM

Yes, his hesitance means he doesn't actually want to do it. If he actually wanted to do it, he'd do it. If you mean "does his hesitance mean he actually doesn't have gay feelings?" the answer is "almost certainly not." Why would a guy say he's confused about his sexuality when he isn't?

Chris! · Nov-28-2009, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Dolphus Raymond

Why would a guy say he's confused about his sexuality when he isn't?

denial

**hehe** · Nov-28-2009, 05:43 PM

The hesitance could be for a variety of reasons: nervousness, concern about STDs, and concern about word spreading about him having gay sex, among others. I don't think it says much about his actual sexual orientation, since he's stated that he wants to have sex with these other guys.

Dolphus Raymond · Nov-28-2009, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by CC4KP

denial

No, I meant why would a guy who's actually straight claim to have gay attractions? A guy who's actually gay might claim to be "curious," of course, but the OP seems to be wondering if he was actually just pretending to have those feelings. Why would he? Just makes his life harder.

Nov-28-2009, 03:08 PM	#1
ZanderZab Member Join Date: July 23rd, 2006 Location: Massachussetts of the U S and A Age: 16 Male	cant do it my friend said that he has gay feelings about many guys and he wants to have sex with them. a few times he actually had the chance to but then couldnt bring him self to do it. my friend is curious i think, not gay. but could this hesitance be because he doesnt want to actually do it? __________________ 16/Male/Bi Pressed But Not Crushed. Persecuted Not Abandoned. Struck Down But Not Destroyed. ZANDER Peep The Strategy.

Nov-28-2009, 04:08 PM	#2
Dolphus Raymond (Alcon) Member Join Date: June 12th, 2006 Location: Seattle, WA Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: cant do it Yes, his hesitance means he doesn't actually want to do it. If he actually wanted to do it, he'd do it. If you mean "does his hesitance mean he actually doesn't have gay feelings?" the answer is "almost certainly not." Why would a guy say he's confused about his sexuality when he isn't? __________________ alcon. so old now.

Nov-28-2009, 05:43 PM	#4
hehe Moderator Join Date: January 12th, 2007 Location: US Age: 19 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: cant do it The hesitance could be for a variety of reasons: nervousness, concern about STDs, and concern about word spreading about him having gay sex, among others. I don't think it says much about his actual sexual orientation, since he's stated that he wants to have sex with these other guys. __________________ hehe p101 moderator

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