Question for the girls.

ATL · Nov-25-2009, 04:44 AM

So all the guys i know are super comfortable about talking about masturbation yet all of the girls ive met completely denie it yet you still have that feeling and hear the tone of their voice that makes you believe theyre lying, ive met only 1 girl who admits it...exept she likes me and i think she was trying to turn me on...i dont like her like that...so why do girls deny it? Becuz you feel dirty, ashamed? Also i know guys are mostly known for watching porn but do any girls watch it to? That one girl told me she duz. So i was just wondering...

**hehe** · Nov-25-2009, 05:13 AM

Statistically speaking, girls are less likely than guys to masturbate, although most ultimately do masturbate at some point. Girls are also less likely to watch porn, though as you say, that doesn't mean no girls watch porn, just that fewer girls than guys watch porn.

SarahJackson15f · Nov-25-2009, 06:27 AM

I masturbate ALL the time...lol but id never admit it in real life to any guy (other than my boyfriend).... way too embarrassed... lol

gucciiva · Nov-25-2009, 06:35 AM

I think we do it almost as much as guys, just don't talk about it.
Why?
First of all that's private thing, and I talk about that just with my close friends (and I didn't when I was younger). Or here, where people don't know me. Second, society teach us that girls should be ladys, little princes and don't do such things. Women shouldn't be sexual in way men are - that's what was traditionally believed. Women were here just to satisfy men and bring babies on world, not to enjoy in their bodies and in sex. Those traditional ways of thinking are still alive.

mariagiovanna · Nov-25-2009, 06:44 PM

I agree with gucciiva. And more: also after the "sexual revolution", sex is o.k. (also) for women, but not pure and simple pleasure. And masturbation is mere pleasure. For most people, this is not yet permitted to girls.

Zeus. · Nov-26-2009, 12:32 AM

Because it is a public taboo especially on the female side.

2cocoalove · Nov-28-2009, 02:42 PM

i do..and i'd never admit it...

**Suzanne** · Nov-29-2009, 08:40 AM

Fewer women masturbate than men. I don't. You really can't assume that just because a girl says she doesn't masturbate means that she's lying.

Chloe Stone · Nov-29-2009, 12:41 PM

guys dont tell the truth about it either. everyone knows guys do it every day but if you ask a guy he always say its only maybe 1 or 2 times a week.

taylor49 · Nov-29-2009, 02:49 PM

yes, i masturbate all the time! i'm not embarrassed about it or anything, and I dont really see anything wrong about talking about it. The problem is that at school, if i were to tell a guy something like that, word would get around and be a little embarrassing knowing that everybody knows my masturbation history/techniques/whatever

Indirosie · Nov-30-2009, 03:41 AM

I am a girl,
and I do masturbate,
But whenever the question comes up I deny it,
I think it is because I feel like it makes me disgusting,
or just that I think people might see me different,
But i think I will just have to accept that it is natural,
and I do occasionally watch porn.

libero-rocco · Dec-04-2009, 10:20 PM

i know a girl who is very open with her friends (i'm one of them). she has said that even though she's gone out with this guy for 4 years, they havent had sex. believable. she says she has never masturbated and, from she has said, it doesnt sound like she has felt the urge to. possible.
But at the same time she has said 'well its not like me and [her boyfriend's name] have not done anything' and she told me about this dream she had where she got fingered in her dream to what sounded like the point of orgasm.
these 2 things seem to contradict the first 2 statements, dont you think? cos presuming she has never pleasured herself, i doubt she has let her boyfriend finger her So what 'stuff' could they have done which doesnt involve sexual stimulating her? i guess she could have given him a blowjob/handjob but surely she would then want something in return?
what do you guys think?

eJ_nehpetS · Dec-05-2009, 02:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chloe Stone

guys dont tell the truth about it either. everyone knows guys do it every day but if you ask a guy he always say its only maybe 1 or 2 times a week.

Counterexample: I don't masturbate everyday. I guess your logic is flawed.

yourweird · Dec-05-2009, 07:33 AM

It just depends on the person. I'm a guy, I masturbate, but I don't tell anyone about it. It's a personal thing, y'know.

Nov-25-2009, 04:44 AM	#1
ATL Member Join Date: November 19th, 2009 Location: U.S. Of A Age: 13 Male	Question for the girls. So all the guys i know are super comfortable about talking about masturbation yet all of the girls ive met completely denie it yet you still have that feeling and hear the tone of their voice that makes you believe theyre lying, ive met only 1 girl who admits it...exept she likes me and i think she was trying to turn me on...i dont like her like that...so why do girls deny it? Becuz you feel dirty, ashamed? Also i know guys are mostly known for watching porn but do any girls watch it to? That one girl told me she duz. So i was just wondering... __________________ 10% Luck, 20% Skill, 15% Concentrated Power Of Will, 5% Pleasure, 50% Pain, And A 100% Reason To Remember The Name. If you have ffm on ipod touch/iphone, add me i like talkin to people. my user names Zer0

Nov-25-2009, 05:13 AM	#2
hehe Moderator Join Date: January 12th, 2007 Location: US Age: 19 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Question for the girls. Statistically speaking, girls are less likely than guys to masturbate, although most ultimately do masturbate at some point. Girls are also less likely to watch porn, though as you say, that doesn't mean no girls watch porn, just that fewer girls than guys watch porn. __________________ hehe p101 moderator

Nov-25-2009, 06:27 AM	#3
SarahJackson15f (Sarah) Member Join Date: July 22nd, 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 16 Female	Re: Question for the girls. I masturbate ALL the time...lol but id never admit it in real life to any guy (other than my boyfriend).... way too embarrassed... lol

Nov-25-2009, 06:35 AM	#4
gucciiva Banned Join Date: October 4th, 2009 Location: EU Female	Re: Question for the girls. I think we do it almost as much as guys, just don't talk about it. Why? First of all that's private thing, and I talk about that just with my close friends (and I didn't when I was younger). Or here, where people don't know me. Second, society teach us that girls should be ladys, little princes and don't do such things. Women shouldn't be sexual in way men are - that's what was traditionally believed. Women were here just to satisfy men and bring babies on world, not to enjoy in their bodies and in sex. Those traditional ways of thinking are still alive. Last edited by gucciiva; Nov-25-2009 at 06:56 PM.

Nov-25-2009, 06:44 PM	#5
mariagiovanna Member Join Date: November 3rd, 2009 Female	Re: Question for the girls. I agree with gucciiva. And more: also after the "sexual revolution", sex is o.k. (also) for women, but not pure and simple pleasure. And masturbation is mere pleasure. For most people, this is not yet permitted to girls.

Nov-26-2009, 12:32 AM	#6
Zeus. (Austin) Member Join Date: April 10th, 2006 Location: L-Town Fools Age: 19 Male My Diaries: ( 1 2 3 )	Re: Question for the girls. Because it is a public taboo especially on the female side. __________________

Nov-28-2009, 02:42 PM	#7
2cocoalove Member Join Date: August 22nd, 2009 Female	Re: Question for the girls. i do..and i'd never admit it... __________________ 14/female/straight

Nov-29-2009, 08:40 AM	#8
Suzanne Moderator Join Date: November 1st, 2007 Location: Florida Age: 17 Female My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Question for the girls. Fewer women masturbate than men. I don't. You really can't assume that just because a girl says she doesn't masturbate means that she's lying. __________________ There never was a good war or a bad peace. ~Thomas Jefferson

Nov-29-2009, 12:41 PM	#9
Chloe Stone (Chloe) New Member Join Date: November 7th, 2009 Location: UK Age: 13 Female	Re: Question for the girls. guys dont tell the truth about it either. everyone knows guys do it every day but if you ask a guy he always say its only maybe 1 or 2 times a week.

Nov-29-2009, 02:49 PM	#10
taylor49 Member Join Date: November 29th, 2009	Re: Question for the girls. yes, i masturbate all the time! i'm not embarrassed about it or anything, and I dont really see anything wrong about talking about it. The problem is that at school, if i were to tell a guy something like that, word would get around and be a little embarrassing knowing that everybody knows my masturbation history/techniques/whatever

Nov-30-2009, 03:41 AM	#11
Indirosie (Indi Rose G) Member Join Date: October 19th, 2009 Location: Australia Female	Re: Question for the girls. I am a girl, and I do masturbate, But whenever the question comes up I deny it, I think it is because I feel like it makes me disgusting, or just that I think people might see me different, But i think I will just have to accept that it is natural, and I do occasionally watch porn. __________________ 15/F/STRAIGHT Never been kissed “Puberty is the sickest joke God plays on us. So you're just noticing members of the sex: "Girls girls, ooo". Naturally you want to look your best, and God says "No! You will look the worst you've ever looked in your life!"”

Dec-04-2009, 10:20 PM	#12
libero-rocco Member Join Date: October 30th, 2006 Age: 18 Male	Re: Question for the girls. i know a girl who is very open with her friends (i'm one of them). she has said that even though she's gone out with this guy for 4 years, they havent had sex. believable. she says she has never masturbated and, from she has said, it doesnt sound like she has felt the urge to. possible. But at the same time she has said 'well its not like me and [her boyfriend's name] have not done anything' and she told me about this dream she had where she got fingered in her dream to what sounded like the point of orgasm. these 2 things seem to contradict the first 2 statements, dont you think? cos presuming she has never pleasured herself, i doubt she has let her boyfriend finger her So what 'stuff' could they have done which doesnt involve sexual stimulating her? i guess she could have given him a blowjob/handjob but surely she would then want something in return? what do you guys think?

Dec-05-2009, 07:33 AM	#14
yourweird Member Join Date: August 18th, 2007 Location: kentucky Age: 18 Male	Re: Question for the girls. It just depends on the person. I'm a guy, I masturbate, but I don't tell anyone about it. It's a personal thing, y'know. __________________ I'm well aware that my username is grammatically incorrect. Give me a break, I was fourteen and dumb when I made this account.

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