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Old Nov-23-2009, 06:43 PM   #1
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Well, My best friend is alexa, and i have been in love with her since i met her. She had a boy friend, so i started dating another girl and still am. But i am still madly in love with alexa. I think she might like me too, but im not sure. She txts me all day every day. She gave me her jacket, She walked to a different city with me, and she laughs at everything i say. do u think she likes me? I hope she does. What do i do? i dont want to hurt our relationship by doing something stupid.
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Old Nov-23-2009, 07:22 PM   #2
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Aren't you at all concerned about your current girlfriend?

I think if you don't like her anymore you should at least consider her feelings and break it off with her because you know you're not interested in her anymore.

As for Alexa...just go for it. Take a chance and tell her how you feel. Maybe not as honest as "I'm madly in love with you and have been since I met you", but something more along the lines of "My feelings for you have passed 'just friends'."
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Old Nov-23-2009, 08:14 PM   #3
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sorry, i forgot that part about my current gf. I wil break it off if something happens with alexa.
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Old Nov-23-2009, 09:50 PM   #4
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She sounds like she likes you a lot and may even loves you, but your are going to have to find out by continuing your friendship with her and trying to get even in a closer relationship to see what happens.
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sorry, i forgot that part about my current gf. I wil break it off if something happens with alexa.
That's wrong. It makes it sound like your current girlfriend is "second choice" and you're only staying with her because you can't have your first choice. That's not fair to her; she deserves to be dating someone who views her as a "number one". If you don't have genuine feelings for her and are focused on this Alexa girl then you need to break it off regardless of how things progress with Alexa.
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Old Nov-23-2009, 10:11 PM   #6
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i know, and i am going to, but i think she may have cheated on me too. So i am sort of apathetic towards it.
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Old Nov-24-2009, 12:06 AM   #7
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I think you're missing the point. Your entire mindset on your current relationship is kind of messed up.

You don't break up with her WHEN/IF something happens with Alexa. You break up with her because you don't care about her anymore and it's not fair to her if you string her out like this, whether or not she may have cheated on you.

To be honest, it almost sounds as if you dislike your current girlfriend. Start by ending it with her. Then pursue Alexa.
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Old Nov-24-2009, 09:04 PM   #8
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yeah she either likes you ALOT, or like you said she's just your best friend
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Well, My best friend is alexa, and i have been in love with her since i met her. She had a boy friend, so i started dating another girl and still am. But i am still madly in love with alexa. I think she might like me too, but im not sure. She txts me all day every day. She gave me her jacket, She walked to a different city with me, and she laughs at everything i say. do u think she likes me? I hope she does. What do i do? i dont want to hurt our relationship by doing something stupid.
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i know, and i am going to, but i think she may have cheated on me too. So i am sort of apathetic towards it.

FUCKING HELL CHANCE!!!
UR A FUCKING FILTHY LIAR!!!!
AFTER EVERY TIME U TOLD ME I WAS WRONG TO MAKE ASSUPTIONS!!!!
guess she'll aways be first in ur phone book huh?
thx a ton. it wont be too hard to forget everything, i hope.
im no cheater. but apparently u r.
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I... er.

Yeah... Hmm. I think I'll, erm, draw a line under this one.
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