Girl troubles

[Salecko]

Well, I'm new posting here, but always come here to seek out fellow advice. Anyways, I am having some girl troubles. I am 14 and like someone, and she likes me back. The problem is that she said she doesn't go out with anyone during her soccer season. Any help?

[kwstasnikos]

Well, maybe you should wait until the soccer session ends.

[Salecko]

Possibly, but I think it has a while to go as it has just started.

[kwstasnikos]

You can propose her to go out then.

[PinoyBoy]

Try to hang out with her first.

This might get moved to love&dating.

[Salecko]

Okay, sorry if this was the wrong section. Actually, there's a good chance of us skating tomorrow. But on the down side, she has a sister whose bf won't go so it would be me and them 2.

[Dolphus Raymond]

>> Love & Dating >>

[Sic]

Then don't "date". Just..."go together". Basically you agree that you like each other and let each other know how you feel, but respect the fact that her soccer will come first, I guess.

OR

Just stay close with her and keep the romance up until the season ends.

[cody15]

You have to recognize how important soccer is to her, and you should not put any pressure on her to break her dedication to what she loves. Once the season is over then you will have her all to your self, a small sacrafice to make for her.

[AppleTalk]

Hey! What about soccer, do you like it? Go to the games!

[Salecko]

Yea, I play soccer. We've played together once. Thanks for the advice you guys. Also, I would go to her games, but my parents don't know that I like her. We're going to hang out tomorrow, but i've never gone anywhere together with a girl before. My parents joke on it alot. They joke about things like, 'Girls are a waste of time and money. Don't get involved.' Any tips on that? Also, more on the OP would be nice to

[Ikillony]

Not to burst your bubble but... that might be her way of saying no, or avoiding the situation as long as possible because she does not want to hurt you.

[claire.marie]

Originally Posted by Ikillony

Not to burst your bubble but... that might be her way of saying no, or avoiding the situation as long as possible because she does not want to hurt you.

I doubt that. Soccer is just important to her, she's dedicated to it.

@OP: Wait until soccer season ends, while spending time together here and there, and when it's over, see if you still have the same feelings for each other. If you do, then the two of you can date.

[Ikillony]

Originally Posted by claire.marie

I doubt that. Soccer is just important to her, she's dedicated to it.

@OP: Wait until soccer season ends, while spending time together here and there, and when it's over, see if you still have the same feelings for each other. If you do, then the two of you can date.

And I'm dedicated to football, but that wouldn't stop me from dating. Just seems a lil strange if you ask me.

Oh, and hi, long time no see.

[Ash_k]

Just be friends with her then and see where things go. Don't tell her that though. From personal experience, telling someone that you like them and them telling you that they like you back, and then saying, "We'll be friends and see where it goes," can lead to awkwardness.

Sport seasons are only a couple months long, if you've waited this long then another 3 or so months won't kill you. Definitely go to her games though; show her that you support her

As far as parents, mine say the same thing. If you say they're just kidding then I doubt they'll actually have a problem in an actual situation. Just tell them you're going somewhere with a friend, and technically you are.