Why does this happen to me....

JoeBroski · Nov-19-2009, 11:38 PM

Okay yeah im gay but me and my friends still joke around and do stuff like randomly put their hand around eachother and stuff like that. and whenever it happens, i get a boner. im not even attracted to any of my friends. And another time we jokingly held eachothers hands and walked for like 2 seconds and i got an isntant boner. wtfffff....

Stoicism · Nov-19-2009, 11:54 PM

haha my friends do this too.

cody15 · Nov-19-2009, 11:58 PM

It could be that you are excited sexually during those times and that physical contact with a person, causes you to get sexually aroused even if you are not attracted to those persons sexually.

Zeus. · Nov-20-2009, 02:41 AM

They are arousing situations. You got aroused.

Simple enough.

Valjean · Nov-20-2009, 03:51 PM

you are gay or was that a typo?

cos if your gay then its cos ur gay

BioHazardMan · Nov-20-2009, 04:06 PM

Have you came out yet? If they don't know this makes you uncomfortable you could talk to them or something.

JoeBroski · Nov-20-2009, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by BioHazardMan

Have you came out yet? If they don't know this makes you uncomfortable you could talk to them or something.

Some o them do and some of them dont. But it doesnt make me uncomfertable, its just embarassing when it happens. they dont notice tho i think.

The3moons · Nov-20-2009, 07:12 PM

Man it's just your raging hormones. If they seem not to have a problem with it then just go along with it.. (If it's ok with your self)

failed_attempt · Nov-20-2009, 08:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The3moons

Man it's just your raging hormones. Don't pay attention to people saying that you are gay.

Check his signature... He is...

The3moons · Nov-20-2009, 08:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by failed_attempt

Check his signature... He is...

Oh, I didn't see that... Thank god for editing.

Moconnor · Nov-21-2009, 11:45 AM

well it happens to everyone if anyone touches your crotch i think you would get aroused! lol dont worry about it im sure your friends have had the same experience!

Jack-kun · Nov-21-2009, 12:35 PM

These activities in that specific situation are obviously arousing to you (internally); the fact your dont have attraction to them is a bit discarded here because what you're doing is what you want to feel with a partner. Assuming youre single then what you do with your friends has no limitation, and well I suppose its good you feel comfortable about it (I don't like the idea of mimicking homosexual activities if you're straight, I find it a bit offensive).

marktheman · Nov-21-2009, 03:49 PM

It happens to me every time I wrestle with a friend. I'm not gay (I am curious).

I think it's just the body contact that arouses you.

Junky-Kay · Nov-21-2009, 04:41 PM

It's probably about your mind. It's thinking soo much about guys that it is replacing your friends with guys that will get you a boner. Maybe you should talk with them and figure a solution to things. They might have gotten a boner to if you ask them. So yeah, it's okay to get a boner, because you're going into the age (19-20) where your hormones will go on rampage so get ready for it. Best of luck!

hottie93 · Nov-21-2009, 05:27 PM

yea me and my friends do this haha
and maybe its not that you like them but just that you are attracted to guys

Nov-19-2009, 11:38 PM	#1
JoeBroski (Joe) Member Join Date: July 18th, 2008 Age: 18 Male	Why does this happen to me.... Okay yeah im gay but me and my friends still joke around and do stuff like randomly put their hand around eachother and stuff like that. and whenever it happens, i get a boner. im not even attracted to any of my friends. And another time we jokingly held eachothers hands and walked for like 2 seconds and i got an isntant boner. wtfffff.... __________________ 18/Male/Gay I am happy most of my friends accept it too. ^_^

Nov-19-2009, 11:54 PM	#2
Stoicism (Battery) Member Join Date: April 27th, 2009 Location: Where they go hard core and there's glitter on the floor. Male	Re: Why does this happen to me.... haha my friends do this too. __________________ I'm a sexy bitch.

Nov-19-2009, 11:58 PM	#3
cody15 (Cody) Member Join Date: October 26th, 2009 Location: Florida Age: 15 Male	Re: Why does this happen to me.... It could be that you are excited sexually during those times and that physical contact with a person, causes you to get sexually aroused even if you are not attracted to those persons sexually.

Nov-20-2009, 02:41 AM	#4
Zeus. (Austin) Member Join Date: April 10th, 2006 Location: L-Town Fools Age: 19 Male My Diaries: ( 1 2 3 )	Re: Why does this happen to me.... They are arousing situations. You got aroused. Simple enough. __________________

Nov-20-2009, 04:06 PM	#6
BioHazardMan (Austin) Member Join Date: July 30th, 2009 Location: Ohio Age: 14 Male	Re: Why does this happen to me.... Have you came out yet? If they don't know this makes you uncomfortable you could talk to them or something. __________________ "An investment in knowledge pays the best interest." ~Ben Franklin 14/M/S-sometimes curious

Nov-20-2009, 07:12 PM	#8
The3moons (John) Member Join Date: June 13th, 2008 Location: North Carolina Male	Re: Why does this happen to me.... Man it's just your raging hormones. If they seem not to have a problem with it then just go along with it.. (If it's ok with your self) __________________ *I'm a nice person... I'm a generous person... I have a short temper.....* *GET OVER IT!!!!!* *HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!* Last edited by The3moons; Nov-20-2009 at 08:40 PM. Reason: didn't see the OP sig

Nov-21-2009, 12:35 PM	#12
Jack-kun (Mister. Jack) Member Join Date: June 2nd, 2007 Location: Essex, England Age: 17 Male	Re: Why does this happen to me.... These activities in that specific situation are obviously arousing to you (internally); the fact your dont have attraction to them is a bit discarded here because what you're doing is what you want to feel with a partner. Assuming youre single then what you do with your friends has no limitation, and well I suppose its good you feel comfortable about it (I don't like the idea of mimicking homosexual activities if you're straight, I find it a bit offensive). __________________ Any advice I give is to be used at your own risk, by repeating it you make yourself responsible for it. Please see your local GP or nurse for more accurate info. My deviantART profile (it's like a poetry book now XD) Googling my way to 2020, where they will rule the earth. “The young man knows the rules but the old man knows the exceptions” - Oliver Wendell Holmes

Nov-21-2009, 03:49 PM	#13
marktheman (Mark) Member Join Date: May 17th, 2008 Age: 15 Male	Re: Why does this happen to me.... It happens to me every time I wrestle with a friend. I'm not gay (I am curious). I think it's just the body contact that arouses you.

Nov-21-2009, 04:41 PM	#14
Junky-Kay (Kevin Thao) Member Join Date: September 7th, 2009 Location: USA Male	Re: Why does this happen to me.... It's probably about your mind. It's thinking soo much about guys that it is replacing your friends with guys that will get you a boner. Maybe you should talk with them and figure a solution to things. They might have gotten a boner to if you ask them. So yeah, it's okay to get a boner, because you're going into the age (19-20) where your hormones will go on rampage so get ready for it. Best of luck! __________________ "Why is my Crotch well pump flowered?"

Nov-21-2009, 05:27 PM	#15
hottie93 (johnny) Banned Join Date: November 21st, 2009	Re: Why does this happen to me.... yea me and my friends do this haha and maybe its not that you like them but just that you are attracted to guys

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