Need Help

[toddod]

So, I've recently started having sex with my girlfriend a few months ago. I like it, but the only thing is that the last couple of times I couldn't even last 2 minutes. It wouldn't have bothered me as much if it happened only once or twice. What bothers me is that it has happened at least every time for the past couple of weeks. The worst part is the first couple of times i lasted about 20 minutes. I've tried the stop and go technique but it really didn't work. It's really depressed me because it doesn't last nearly as long as I would want to, especially for my gf. Is there anything I can do to help prevent premature ejaculation or improve how long I last at all? and, if it gets bad enough, could I get medicine to help without my parents knowing and possibly over the counter?

[Blau]

Sounds like you have sex often, so maybe just doing it less often will help.

[toddod]

Originally Posted by zach92

Sounds like you have sex often, so maybe just doing it less often will help.

It's really only once a week, 2 at most. And if I wait, i'm afraid the same thing will happen.

[biker]

i heard if u jerk off b4 u had sex it makes u last longer idk if thats true or not

[Elysium]

Spend more time with the foreplay.

[Sic]

Originally Posted by biker

i heard if u jerk off b4 u had sex it makes u last longer idk if thats true or not

Very very true. But if you don't leave enough time you may not be able to get it back up. I know if I get hard after having recently wanked I'm a bit sore, heh.

I've also heard that Viagra can make you go forever. I heard it was Viagra + Older men = forever. Dunno about with younger peoples.

Foreplay = a real winner. It won't necessarily make you last longer, but the whole act sure will.

Do you use condoms? Buy less comfy ones. Or use two.

If you don't have trouble staying hard for a while, do positions that aren't quite as thrilling. Go at speeds that you don't find mind-blowing. It's really hard to not do what feels great, but it will make you last longer.

If all else fails...think about baseball or whatever it is they do in the movies.

[GT-7]

Originally Posted by Sic

Do you use condoms? Buy less comfy ones. Or use two.

Never, ever, use two condoms at once. Unless you want to get an even bigger problem. The friction between the two could cause them to break.



OP, do you ever masturbate between sex sessions? Like someone mentioned already, masturbating more frequently does help you last longer. If you know that you're going to have sex, I'd suggest taking care of yourself a few hours beforehand.

Sic had a few good suggestions when it comes to the actual sex... You might also want to try taking a break every now and then and focusing on giving your girlfriend oral, etc. This could help give you some time to recover while making sure she is still enjoying herself.

[gucciiva]

Viagra is for people who are old and who can't get it up! Not for young, healthy boys who are just overexcited cos having sex! So don't you even think about it, it can be very unhealthy!
And never, ever use two condoms because they will broke! You can buy thicker ones.
Try masturbating before (not like 5 minutes before, but before in a day).
If you can get it up again pretty quickly that's not such a big problem. Then you just start again and you will probably last longer.
And also, you know, they are 1000 ways how to satisfy your girlfriend (and vaginal penetration is not only one, often is not even a way to satisfy her).

[toddod]

Originally Posted by GT-7

Never, ever, use two condoms at once. Unless you want to get an even bigger problem. The friction between the two could cause them to break.



OP, do you ever masturbate between sex sessions? Like someone mentioned already, masturbating more frequently does help you last longer. If you know that you're going to have sex, I'd suggest taking care of yourself a few hours beforehand.

Sic had a few good suggestions when it comes to the actual sex... You might also want to try taking a break every now and then and focusing on giving your girlfriend oral, etc. This could help give you some time to recover while making sure she is still enjoying herself.

Yeah, I've heard about masturbating that would help so I'm trying that. I think I'll just go slower and take my time and do more foreplay then.

[SportsKid87]

They actually make condoms that have a desensitizer inside them that are supposed to make your penis less sensitive to stimulation and make you last longer during sex. I think trojan and durex make them. Ive never tried them but i probably should too. ha

[toddod]

Originally Posted by SportsKid87

They actually make condoms that have a desensitizer inside them that are supposed to make your penis less sensitive to stimulation and make you last longer during sex. I think trojan and durex make them. Ive never tried them but i probably should too. ha

Well, I wondered if the type of condom was the issue. The first times where I lasted the longest were a different type than the ones that I used when I started getting PE. They're both the same brand, though, so I'm not sure if it's true. I'm still having troubles and I have no idea why.

[BallinBoy21]

do not get medicine especially at our ages. Just flex you pc muscles or have more sex to practice.

[Optimus Prime.]

Viagra is a no go.

More foreplay with her, get her closer to getting off so you should finish around the same time.

If you masturbate regularly, you should be used to stimulation down there, also 'Stop and Go' will build stamina if done regularly and correctly.

Since this has been happening for a while now you may subconsciously lack confidence and this may be another reason why you finish quickly.

Some condoms are thicker than others, while some offer other... extras for lack of better words. Try a few and see what works best for you and your partner.

Since techniques and stories can not be shared I can only really tell you to enjoy yourself as much as possible and if both you and your partner are enjoying themselves, then what more can you ask for?

[gucciiva]

Originally Posted by Optimus Prime.

More foreplay with her, get her closer to getting off so you should finish around the same time.

Or just make her orgasm before so she probably wouldn't mind if you last 2 minutes - because she already orgasmed.

[Zelda]

Originally Posted by gucciiva

Or just make her orgasm before so she probably wouldn't mind if you last 2 minutes - because she already orgasmed.

I would mind things ending so quickly, not because of a lack of orgasm, but because sex isn't just about orgasm. If someone gets me off in foreplay, it doesn't mean I'm okay with barely having sex.