quick advice needed.........

[andrew lucas]

okay this girl im seeing, i was reading a facebook note she had and it said last person you kissed older than you? she put "mhmmmm" but i am younger then her.. by 2 days exactly lol

this might sound dumb but could that be a simple misconception or do you think someone wouldn't make an easy mistake like that..

what im saying is how do i confront her about this without being like "i saw on your facebook".....etc



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just another question, with this girl she cheated on her boyfriend with me then she dumped him (she is not "slutty") though she actually felt really guilty afterwards, but ever since then she preclaims to "like" me and only me but you know how you get those feelings in your gut well my GUT feeling is that it feels like theres more to it like she still has feelings for him or for someone else, idk how to quite explain it but its more of the feeling that im more into her then she is to me..

[QuietThunder]

Hmmm....I can totally see myself thinking the exact thing as you if I was in a similar situation. I dont think it was a mistake. Even if you were two days OLDER than her, I dont think she would consider you older unless it was a year difference. Consider the possibilities. Though it's not likely, it could mean a family member.

Just go about it casually. Mention how you were browsing facebook and you came across that. Joke and say something like "haha, but I'm two days younger than you". Her reaction may or may not give you your answer. Just my two cents. Good luck.

[andrew lucas]

as much as i want to and i appreciate the advice, with her i dont think that is the right approach really, but a few more ideas wouldn't hurt.

just because theres no way i wanna hint that i even have an idea about her kissing anyone, i already feel like i harass her about her ex enough

[custodis]

Originally Posted by andrew lucas

as much as i want to and i appreciate the advice, with her i dont think that is the right approach really, but a few more ideas wouldn't hurt.

just because theres no way i wanna hint that i even have an idea about her kissing anyone, i already feel like i harass her about her ex enough

Well, you could either ask her... or you could stalk her facebook a bit more. One is a lot less creepy than the other. You pick.

If she's really that into you, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. It could always have been her dad or someone else in her family.

[Sic]

When was the note made? A lot of times I get weird Facebook alerts that are from like 4 months ago.

I'm sure you didn't make that mistake, but just in case.

Otherwise, if it's really eating at you, just be blunt about it.

[andrew lucas]

yesterday, and honestly i dont even know i think im just going to forget about it..its a facebook note maybe what i dont know wont kill me either if it is true :l

[Sic]

Originally Posted by andrew lucas

what i dont know wont kill me either if it is true :l

That's ridiculous. Let's say, for arguments sake, that she's kissed somebody a few years older than her within the last few days. Let's assume that it's not a relative of hers either.

Wouldn't you WANT to know if you're being cheated on? You're telling me that you'd rather have a fake relationship with a girl and consciously ignore any signs of her disloyalty because it's better than just being dumped and being done with it?

I think you better think this one through a little bit more.

I'm not saying to scream your head off at her for something that COULD be a complete misunderstanding. I do think you should bring it up and clear all this up ASAP though.

[Elysium]

Do what Sic said. If you don't it's going to keep nagging at you. Guarantee it. Just go about it calmly, and mention it sarcastically, like Quiet Thunder said.

[Luke]

I would just call her out on it. It's not "facebook stalking" she posted a note publicly, which questions the relationship. Just say "hey who was the last person you kissed when you posted that note?"

Read her body language/facial expressions though, do it in person, because she may well not be telling the truth.

[Zeus.]

Originally Posted by Luke

I would just call her out on it. It's not "facebook stalking" she posted a note publicly, which questions the relationship. Just say "hey who was the last person you kissed when you posted that note?"

Read her body language/facial expressions though, do it in person, because she may well not be telling the truth.

Totally agree with Luke.