Loner No Mourner

[pakaya]

Okay anyone who read my 'turning everyone against me' post will realize that I've got no choice but to be a loner at least at school cuz I have got friends in other schools...
What I want to know is how do you enjoy being a loner AT SCHOOL...I mean is there a way where you can feel better eventhough everyone in your class is against you and thinks you are a dirty guy? For those who don't know my story here it is quoted from 'turning everyone against me'- "Okay recently I had a huge fight with a guy who used to be my best friend cuz he stabbed me in the back and talked shit about me and i embarrassed him in front of is friends...I told the guy that it's over and forgot about it. now this mofo has asked one of my other really close friends for his facebook password and has gone to that friend's account and talked shit to everyone posing as me and an hour later the sob has put an update saying i hacked my friend profile and to ignore me....now all my friends and classmates who used to be closed with me think I'm some sort of jerk and has turned against me. They wouldnt believe me when iI say that it wasn't me and the fellow who owns the profile thinks i hacked it cuz i sort of knew his profile....I'm all alone with the whole class against me...What should I do?"

[Malevolent]

Originally Posted by pakaya

Okay anyone who read my 'turning everyone against me' post will realize that I've got no choice but to be a loner at least at school cuz I have got friends in other schools...
What I want to know is how do you enjoy being a loner AT SCHOOL...I mean is there a way where you can feel better eventhough everyone in your class is against you and thinks you are a dirty guy? For those who don't know my story here it is quoted from 'turning everyone against me'- "Okay recently I had a huge fight with a guy who used to be my best friend cuz he stabbed me in the back and talked shit about me and i embarrassed him in front of is friends...I told the guy that it's over and forgot about it. now this mofo has asked one of my other really close friends for his facebook password and has gone to that friend's account and talked shit to everyone posing as me and an hour later the sob has put an update saying i hacked my friend profile and to ignore me....now all my friends and classmates who used to be closed with me think I'm some sort of jerk and has turned against me. They wouldnt believe me when iI say that it wasn't me and the fellow who owns the profile thinks i hacked it cuz i sort of knew his profile....I'm all alone with the whole class against me...What should I do?"

How do you enjoy being a loner at school? You don't, unless you're naturally a loner - if you were one you wouldn't be asking this question, so obviously you're not naturally a loner. There are ways to make it less boring and stressful, but forget about the idea of enjoying it, because it just wont happen.

The best course of action would be to fix this petty high school drama. Do it the old fashion way - with a tape recorder and a confession. Get a tape recorder, confront the person who set you up as the person who hacked the Facebook account, get him to confess he set you up, record it, let all the people who believe him and subsequently turned against you listen to the tape. He will come off as the lying douchebag and your reputation will be restored.

[sean]

If that doesn't work, if you can find one person who believes you, then use them to try to get a confession publicly. Otherwise, just act as though you're above the situation, and hopefully the matter will eventually pass. Any true friend wouldn't leave you over this anyways...

[pakaya]

Originally Posted by Malevolent

There are ways to make it less boring and stressful, but forget about the idea of enjoying it, because it just wont happen.

So how do you make it less boring at school? I've got friends to hang out during interval but they are in the local section (local A\L) while I'm in the london section (Edexcel)...