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Old Nov-02-2009, 01:19 PM   #1
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Default I can't take it...

A while ago I felt depressed over not having a girlfriend, now I have one, she loves me just as much...
I can't stand being away from her for more than an hour, it sets my heart alight, makes me feel sick and depressed, it's not really for the depression forum, because I love having her, but I need an answer, what could kill this pain?

I guess this is what they mean by loving someone so much it hurts.
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Old Nov-02-2009, 01:24 PM   #2
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Default Re: I can't take it...

It's natural to feel this way, but you should tell yourself you both need social lives beyond each other. It hurts at first, yes, but it'll make your relationship with her stronger if you both still keep your friends. Being apart also makes the next time you see her that much better, doesn't it?
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Old Nov-02-2009, 02:18 PM   #3
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You're a bit too attached. Your girlfriend should not be the center of your life. If not having a girlfriend makes you feel like your life is lacking so significantly, its no surprise that once you fill that void you will be overly clingy. Love is not defined by need. Its a tricky road you're on if you see her as something you need and that you can't be without.

My only suggestion is to talk about this with her and try to resolve it. If you have no luck, seek counseling.
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Old Nov-02-2009, 02:25 PM   #4
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Default Re: I can't take it...

I think it's too much. I would be annyoed if I were your girlfriend. I think it's not good to be too obsesed with just one thing in your life. I understand you love her but you must also know how to live on your own.
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Old Nov-02-2009, 11:13 PM   #5
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Your relationship's not gonna work out so well if you're too attached man. She has a life, like you, and sometimes that life requires you to be separate (and I can guarantee you, it'll be for more than an hour.) with her. I'm not saying you two aren't meant to be, but at the moment, you are too attached.
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