Best friends are all bi

LadySelena · Oct-20-2009, 10:01 PM

Basically all my friends are Bi, except for me and 2 other people. But my friend just told me she was bi and she was dating my cousin and it's a little strange for me. I mean I know a lot of people that are bisexual and gay, but I don't think I'll ever look at her the same, because I mean, I didn't really think that she was Bi.

What do I do, I mean, I can't look at her the same, and it's going to be awkward tomorrow at school...

loganjlr · Oct-21-2009, 01:02 AM

You shouldn't really feel any different toward your friend just because she's Bi. She'll always be the same person personality wise, when it comes to her being bisexual, it's just involving the people she's into

Neverender · Oct-21-2009, 01:37 AM

I don't know how many friends we're talking about here, but the incidence of bisexuality seems to be extremely high.

Your friend is the same person she was always. Strong friendships transcend the details, and humans get used to these things. Indeed, I suspect that soon enough you will become accustomed to it and not think it a big deal.

**And?** · Oct-21-2009, 03:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neverender

I don't know how many friends we're talking about here, but the incidence of bisexuality seems to be extremely high.

Translation: Your friends aren't all bisexual.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neverender

Your friend is the same person she was always. Strong friendships transcend the details, and humans get used to these things. Indeed, I suspect that soon enough you will become accustomed to it and not think it a big deal.

Translation: Get over it or don't be friends with her.

As always: Brandon is right on the money.

Dionysus · Oct-21-2009, 08:31 AM

She's the same person you knew before. Not much else anyone can say. Either you accept this, or don't.

Mr.Scientist · Oct-21-2009, 08:35 PM

As some others mentioned, sexuality is nothing to fuss over. If you best friend is bi and you previously not known that, why does that become such a big deal all of the sudden? Sure it might be a new peice of information that you have learned about your friend. Does that mean she is any different in personality? Does she act any different because she is bi? Is she a new person at all due to that fact? Of course not. She was always the same person you knew before she told you she was bi. It should thus not make a difference after all.

Natureboi · Oct-21-2009, 10:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadySelena

Basically all my friends are Bi, except for me and 2 other people. But my friend just told me she was bi and she was dating my cousin and it's a little strange for me. I mean I know a lot of people that are bisexual and gay, but I don't think I'll ever look at her the same, because I mean, I didn't really think that she was Bi.

What do I do, I mean, I can't look at her the same, and it's going to be awkward tomorrow at school...

Is it the fact that you have discovered something new about your friend? Or is it the fact that she's dating your cousin? Or is it a little of both?
Or is it the fact you never thought she would ever be 'that way', and don't know how to relate to her now.

Oct-20-2009, 10:01 PM	#1
LadySelena (Jessica) Member Join Date: January 9th, 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Age: 15 Female	Best friends are all bi Basically all my friends are Bi, except for me and 2 other people. But my friend just told me she was bi and she was dating my cousin and it's a little strange for me. I mean I know a lot of people that are bisexual and gay, but I don't think I'll ever look at her the same, because I mean, I didn't really think that she was Bi. What do I do, I mean, I can't look at her the same, and it's going to be awkward tomorrow at school... __________________ See that, your internet just got its ass kicked. Haha, i'd laugh if your computer goes really slow now..

Oct-21-2009, 01:02 AM	#2
loganjlr (Logan) Member Join Date: November 24th, 2008 Location: Gilbert, Arizona Age: 15 Male	Re: Best friends are all bi You shouldn't really feel any different toward your friend just because she's Bi. She'll always be the same person personality wise, when it comes to her being bisexual, it's just involving the people she's into __________________ Quicker than a ray of light she's flying....... Please check out my little mini-diary, Concert Chronicles http://forums.govteen.com/showthread.php?t=305777

Oct-21-2009, 01:37 AM	#3
Neverender (Brandon) Member Join Date: May 11th, 2007 Location: Trolling the ocean for the soul of my father Age: 21 Male	Re: Best friends are all bi I don't know how many friends we're talking about here, but the incidence of bisexuality seems to be extremely high. Your friend is the same person she was always. Strong friendships transcend the details, and humans get used to these things. Indeed, I suspect that soon enough you will become accustomed to it and not think it a big deal. __________________ I wake up in the morning with nothing to do, and when I go to bed at night I'm half done.

Oct-21-2009, 08:31 AM	#5
Dionysus (Michael) Member Join Date: July 17th, 2005 Location: glasgow, UK Age: 18 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Best friends are all bi She's the same person you knew before. Not much else anyone can say. Either you accept this, or don't. __________________ MySpace \| Bebo \| FaceBook \| Twitter εγω φιλω σε. RAGE AGAINST THE CREME EGG SEASON c'mon folks! Save a creme egg!

Oct-21-2009, 08:35 PM	#6
Mr.Scientist (Chris) Member Join Date: May 18th, 2007 Age: 19 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Best friends are all bi As some others mentioned, sexuality is nothing to fuss over. If you best friend is bi and you previously not known that, why does that become such a big deal all of the sudden? Sure it might be a new peice of information that you have learned about your friend. Does that mean she is any different in personality? Does she act any different because she is bi? Is she a new person at all due to that fact? Of course not. She was always the same person you knew before she told you she was bi. It should thus not make a difference after all. __________________ Philosophy and Debate Moderator! Facebook! If I did not say anything controversial, then no one would disagree with me. -anonymous Come visit our diary of 5 years, The Life of a Bisexual Teen!

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