chance this girl likes me?

[andrew lucas]

usually when i see these questions, they're pretty dumb and obvious answers but alright so theres this girl i recently realised i kind of am starting to like.

I talk to her alot, and she talks to me alot at school, but im not sure if its just because she is in the middle of everything or not. im in grade 10 shes in grade 9 and two of her friends from her grade i know like me, one of them likes me alot so when she first started talking to me it was because she would ask me questions about her friend who likes me etc. (her friend tells people were seeing eachother when im not even seeing her)

the other night we were drinking, and having a fire and her friend was trying to get me to go sit with her and stuff but i was kind of ignoring her because i told her several times i dont like her. anyways the girl i like came over and sat with me and started asking me why i wasnt sitting with her friend, and i told her i didnt like her she was suprised because her friend told her we had a thing the day before (which we didnt!) but after that conversation a bit later she sat on my chair with me like on the arm and started flirting with me alot and getting closer.

for the last month i kind of had a thing with this other girl who just happens to be the girl i likes cousin, the same night we were flirting and stuff she asked me if i liked her one friend again, i said no, she asked me who i like i said katie (her cousin) and she like started telling me some big thing how her cousin likes me alot , and has a boyfriend but is willing to break up with him for me and stuff. and since that night she has been talking to me alot, but mostly about her cousin the thing is that night i did like her cousin but now i think im over her and starting to actually like this girl but i have no idea how to do anything because she thinks i like all these people i dont, who all just happen to be close friends to her .

im not going to lie, i have a problem when it comes to girls im really picky like alot of girls like me and my problem is when im thinking of who i like its really hard for me to actually start to like someone, and having selection just overwhelms me. so what im wondering is when it comes to girls i know they can get competitive and sour between each other over a guy.

with all these girls around her wanting me would that possibly raise the chance of her liking me to? its weird shes the kindof girl that you never hear about liking a guy or having a thing with anyone, not really much of a flirt like most girls these days just kinda keeps to herself.

thats why it seems strange when she talks to me alot, and somewhat flirts in there but im not sure if its all just because of her friend,cousin whatever. or maybe this girl could actually like me to?


i know for my question theres no way to really answer it . i know the best way would be to straight up ask her and trust me i would have by now but just the fact all her friends are always all over me, and usually i can tell when someone likes me but i seriously cant here. i know when someone else sees a situation alot of stuff blind to me might be visible to you. so im just asking for advice on what it seems like.

she possibly likes me? or just wants to talk to me for her friends?

[Uncle Adam.]

Dude, didn't you talk about this in the other thread?

I think you need to let this go until you get yourself sorted out emotionally, because I think that you have so much going on considering that you love someone else who lives 8 hours away and you have this girl who has a boyfriend. She needs to get out of the current relationship before you pursue anything with her so whether she likes you or not is irrelevant as I said. If you really want to find out what she feels, you must ask her yourself instead of going on what friends or cousins say. Get where I am going?