got myself in quite the predicament...

[andrew lucas]

alright im 15.. so this is some high school drama.. woo hoo


but, alright theres this girl i dated over a year ago for 6 months and in this 6 months was all school except a little bit of july, so literally everyday i would go to school hangout with her, walk her home, go home, eat then go back and hangout with her sometimes even chat with her on the phone till supper..like we were pretty crazy about eachother. This girl is the only girl i ever have, and told that i loved her which she knows i did and i know she did because in july she moved away to toronto which is 8 hours from where i live, and a year later she still tells me how she loves me.. and the thing is when she lived in my city, she felt she didnt show she cared about me as much as i did for her so she really regrets it. the other day i was talking to her over msn she was on webcam, and she asked me if i secretly wanted to date .. at first i had no response until she said i could have and do stuff with other girls she just wants to have me.


the problem is i really do wanna accept her idea, because i still have feelings for this girl i can telll her anything, but at the same time theres this other girl i was seeing for about 4 months not to long ago, she ditched me (ill admit it was my own fault) but she told me the other day she still has feelings for me (more then her boyfriend) and would rather be dating me and its up to me. i have no problem for this considering that guy is the guy who took her from me .


dont get me wrong i like both girls alot, theyre both beautiful girls who i just love to talk to the only problem is my ex (the girl who moved on me) was freinds with the girl i currently like before she moved and with facebook and all that she will for sure know if im dating someone in my city, especially if she knows them to!

so im really confused ive came down to it its one or the other

one i love but can never see, and the other i have mixed emotions with all the time but like and think about alot. out of any decision ive had to make with girls, anddrama i cant think of what to do..someones else point of view would be nice!


thanks in advance

[Uncle Adam.]

Honestly, let it go.

You are too young to be dealing with such issues, because although you love this girl and she now has similar feelings, it's unfeasible. You are 8 hours away from each other - you have no financial resources or a car, or the ability to drive a car to go see her and for what? She's allowing you to do things with other girls, so what's the point of having a committed relationship where it's wide open and anything can happen?

As far as the other girl is concerned, she has a boyfriend so whether she likes you more than she does her boyfriend is irrelevant, because she needs to break up with him first before anything else can happen. Next, you are unsure about her as you say you have mixed emotions, so what does that tell you?

So as I said in the beginning, let it all go, focus on studies, your friends, and look for less complicated situations. Quite frankly, most relationships only bring baggage, complexity and hassle, so just wait for a while.

[andrew lucas]

man, i actually think im going to listen to what your saying. lately i've been so stressed about girls and ive liked these two for so long, i cant remember liking anyone else since december last year. so yeah im going to cut it loose. thanks again!

[hillenbrand02]

im in a similar situation, and we agreed to talk every once in a while. Usually on major holidays or birthdays we catch up, its nice. but if you wont be able to fully let go, then just leave it alone.