Boy or girl?

Radio Storm · Oct-18-2009, 08:45 PM

When you have a child (if you ever do), do you hope for a son or a daughter?

phantasmagoria · Oct-18-2009, 08:46 PM

Both.

Le_Tessio · Oct-18-2009, 08:48 PM

Well being gay, I couldn't personally hope to have a biological one, but if I ever consider adoption it'd probably be for a boy, just because I'm not fond of girls, I wouldn't pick a boy child over a girl child in any sick sexual way, so that wouldn't be the reason for picking a boy.

Ashooo · Oct-18-2009, 08:50 PM

both! i want 2 kids

Anna · Oct-18-2009, 08:56 PM

No preference for one over the other.
It's a nice thought to think I'll have at least 1 girl and at least 1 boy, but really, gender doesn't matter to me.

Anna · Oct-18-2009, 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Le_Tessio

Well being gay, I couldn't personally hope to have a biological one, but if I ever consider adoption it'd probably be for a boy, just because I'm not fond of girls, I wouldn't pick a boy child over a girl child in any sick sexual way, so that wouldn't be the reason for picking a boy.

Are you not fond of girls because you're not fond of their gender rules/socialization, or what?

Dolphus Raymond · Oct-18-2009, 09:04 PM

Being completely honest, I'd probably do better with a son...just because I know how it was to grow up as a boy, and I'm better with traditional gender role stuff.

That's not to say I'd be disappointed if it were a girl.

The Seeker · Oct-18-2009, 09:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dolphus Raymond

Being completely honest, I'd probably do better with a son...just because I know how it was to grow up as a boy, and I'm better with traditional gender role stuff.

That's not to say I'd be disappointed if it were a girl.

this. i mean, i'd like to have common interests with my child in addition to being their parent. obviously it won't matter until they get to around 7 or 8 years old, though. i'd be happy with either, but i'd like a boy. and only 1 please

havoc · Oct-18-2009, 09:12 PM

If I had to pick one or the other I'd probably say a boy, because I think raising a girl would be more stressful for me (with the fear of her becoming a slut). haha

Yeah, it's a double standard but whatever.

Radio Storm · Oct-18-2009, 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by havoc

If I had to pick one or the other I'd probably say a boy, because I think raising a girl would be more stressful for me (with the fear of her becoming a slut). haha

Yeah, it's a double standard but whatever.

Boys can be sluts too. Hell, look at some of the guys who post on this forum!

Anna · Oct-18-2009, 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by havoc

If I had to pick one or the other I'd probably say a boy, because I think raising a girl would be more stressful for me (with the fear of her becoming a slut). haha

Yeah, it's a double standard but whatever.

Actually girls are more likely to graduate high school and college/university than boys. Considerably more. And they're far less likely to commit a crime, go to jail, or die as a result of violence than boys. So I'd easily consider boys to be more high-risk than girls if that's your reasoning for preferring one gender.

And males are just as likely to become sluts, and there is a much higher proportion of boys growing up to be homosexuals than girls (if a parent were to find that undesirable, totally wrong, but still quite prevalent in society). Apart from that, I think homosexuals for the most part have it harder than heterosexuals when it comes to getting established and respected in the dating world when they're still young (which could carry additional emotional/physical risks).

Sorry I have to.

Radio Storm · Oct-18-2009, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Anna

Actually girls are more likely to graduate high school and college/university than boys. Considerably more. And they're far less likely to commit a crime, go to jail, or die as a result of violence than boys. So I'd easily consider boys to be more high-risk than girls if that's your reasoning for preferring one gender.

And males are just as likely to become sluts, and there is a much higher proportion of boys growing up to be homosexuals than girls (if a parent were to find that undesirable, totally wrong, but still quite prevalent in society).

Sorry I have to.

Yes, yes, I love you!

VI.XX.MMIX · Oct-18-2009, 09:27 PM

I'd want a boy, but if I got a girl, I'd still be happy.

**Joker** · Oct-18-2009, 09:29 PM

2 boys one girl. obvs.

madgeisgod · Oct-18-2009, 09:29 PM

I'm not interested in women, in more than just the sexuality sense. So a boy.

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Oct-18-2009, 08:45 PM	#1
Radio Storm Banned Join Date: March 27th, 2009 Location: where the polar bears and the caribou play	Boy or girl? When you have a child (if you ever do), do you hope for a son or a daughter?

Oct-18-2009, 08:48 PM	#3
Le_Tessio Member Join Date: June 13th, 2008 Location: Eastern Oklahoma	Re: Boy or girl? Well being gay, I couldn't personally hope to have a biological one, but if I ever consider adoption it'd probably be for a boy, just because I'm not fond of girls, I wouldn't pick a boy child over a girl child in any sick sexual way, so that wouldn't be the reason for picking a boy. __________________ *I am Homosexual...* I do not believe in religion... I do not intend to run down/demean other members... I will not talk about sexual topics in private messages... I am not/nor have I taken any Health Training classes... *I try not to start arguments, but I will defend my replies...I post many a sarcastic remark... If I make you mad, let me know... If my advice does not suit you, then disregard it... Member Since Summer of 2008.***

Oct-18-2009, 08:50 PM	#4
Ashooo (Ash) Member Join Date: October 10th, 2009 Location: England Age: 17 Male	Re: Boy or girl? both! i want 2 kids __________________ "I couldn't care less if you loved me or hate me, lifes a bitch! NOW fuck you pay ME!" "I'll be up up & away cuz in the end they'll judge me anyway! so WHATEVER!!!!!"

Oct-18-2009, 08:56 PM	#5
Anna (Anna) Member Join Date: August 8th, 2003 Location: Ontario, Canada Age: 22 Female	Re: Boy or girl? No preference for one over the other. It's a nice thought to think I'll have at least 1 girl and at least 1 boy, but really, gender doesn't matter to me. __________________ Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts.

Oct-18-2009, 09:04 PM	#7
Dolphus Raymond (Alcon) Member Join Date: June 12th, 2006 Location: Seattle, WA Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Boy or girl? Being completely honest, I'd probably do better with a son...just because I know how it was to grow up as a boy, and I'm better with traditional gender role stuff. That's not to say I'd be disappointed if it were a girl. __________________ alcon. so old now.

Oct-18-2009, 09:12 PM	#9
havoc Member Join Date: May 12th, 2005 Age: 19 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Boy or girl? If I had to pick one or the other I'd probably say a boy, because I think raising a girl would be more stressful for me (with the fear of her becoming a slut). haha Yeah, it's a double standard but whatever. __________________ --

Oct-18-2009, 09:27 PM	#13
VI.XX.MMIX Member Join Date: January 2nd, 2007 Location: South Africa. Age: 18 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Boy or girl? I'd want a boy, but if I got a girl, I'd still be happy. __________________ Now the party's over, and everybody's gone I'm left here with myself and I wonder what went wrong And now my heart is broken, like the bottles on the floor Does it really matter? Or am I just hungover ? Hungover you?

Oct-18-2009, 09:29 PM	#14
Joker (Maphfew =]) Birthday Join Date: October 14th, 2005 Location: United Kingdom. Age: 20 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Boy or girl? 2 boys one girl. obvs. __________________ "Who the hell are you?!... And where the fuck are my clothes!"

Oct-18-2009, 09:29 PM	#15
madgeisgod (Kevin) Member Join Date: September 15th, 2005 Location: MO Male	Re: Boy or girl? I'm not interested in women, in more than just the sexuality sense. So a boy. __________________ Namaste

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