confussssed on what i should do

[andrew lucas]

okay, theres this girl ive had a long history with and through it all shes got on my nerves quite a bit..but i still like her so i have decided, im going to post this topic and whatever you guys give me as advice im going to do no matter what. (unless its not even serious advice)

okay well a while back i had a thing with this girl from maybe late feb early march till about july then in mid july she told me i never "showed" i cared about her enough, so i finally told her i would go out with her, started trying etc then she told me she liked someone else but it was up to me if i wanted her or not obviously i said yes..but she just continued liking htis other guy but at the same time liked me (those were the times she reallllllly pissed me off)

then for a while now since school started i thought she was over him..but last night i was drinking with some of her friends and one of her friends told me she was going out with that guy so i asked her and she said yeah she was (AND YEAH SHE NEVER FUCKIN TOLD ME FOR THE LAST MONTH, BUT AT THE SAME TIME TOLD ME SHE LIKED ME!) piss me right off, but she told me she likes me alot more then him and would rather have something with me rather then him
(her friend told me she said that too)


so im supposed to talk to her on msn in a few hours...i really have no idea what to do my current feelings are i really want her, obviously but at the same time i really wanna drop it finally its been since like august ive been dealing with this bullshit..

[Ashooo]

find someone else, shes just gonna keep playing ya brah!

[Sole]

Originally Posted by andrew lucas

okay, theres this girl ive had a long history with and through it all shes got on my nerves quite a bit..but i still like her so i have decided, im going to post this topic and whatever you guys give me as advice im going to do no matter what. (unless its not even serious advice)

okay well a while back i had a thing with this girl from maybe late feb early march till about july then in mid july she told me i never "showed" i cared about her enough, so i finally told her i would go out with her, started trying etc then she told me she liked someone else but it was up to me if i wanted her or not obviously i said yes..but she just continued liking htis other guy but at the same time liked me (those were the times she reallllllly pissed me off)

then for a while now since school started i thought she was over him..but last night i was drinking with some of her friends and one of her friends told me she was going out with that guy so i asked her and she said yeah she was (AND YEAH SHE NEVER FUCKIN TOLD ME FOR THE LAST MONTH, BUT AT THE SAME TIME TOLD ME SHE LIKED ME!) piss me right off, but she told me she likes me alot more then him and would rather have something with me rather then him
(her friend told me she said that too)


so im supposed to talk to her on msn in a few hours...i really have no idea what to do my current feelings are i really want her, obviously but at the same time i really wanna drop it finally its been since like august ive been dealing with this bullshit..

Andrew,

STOP AND THINK

What right do you have to be angry at her because she likes you and the other guy, and didn't tell you she is going out with the other guy?

• You never dated her
• You aren't such an important person that you need to be informed
• She is allowed to live her life without telling you the details

You getting pissed off at her makes NO SENSE!

What is she supposed to do?

Wait forever while you panic and worry about 'maybe asking her out'.

THIS GIRL WANTS TO DATE! AND YOU FUCKED IT UP!

Look, she doesn't want to date you. She has a boyfriend. Why are you going to speak to her on MSN? What difference does it make to you?

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Why don't you forget this nonsense, delete her from MSN, and go have fun with your mates?

[andrew lucas]

Originally Posted by Sole

Andrew,

STOP AND THINK

What right do you have to be angry at her because she likes you and the other guy, and didn't tell you she is going out with the other guy?

• You never dated her
• You aren't such an important person that you need to be informed
• She is allowed to live her life without telling you the details

You getting pissed off at her makes NO SENSE!

What is she supposed to do?

Wait forever while you panic and worry about 'maybe asking her out'.

THIS GIRL WANTS TO DATE! AND YOU FUCKED IT UP!

Look, she doesn't want to date you. She has a boyfriend. Why are you going to speak to her on MSN? What difference does it make to you?

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Why don't you forget this nonsense, delete her from MSN, and go have fun with your mates?

im going to speak to her on msn because i was texting her, and she told me to go on msn before i go to bed.

yeah i think i do have the right to be a little mad when she is pretending to like me, and see me (come to my house, movies, etc) WHILE she has a secret boyfriend.

and lastly, i was asking for advice not a lecture from some random online punk who is assuming stuff in the situation.. honestly buddy i think you need to chill out

[Sole]

Originally Posted by andrew lucas

im going to speak to her on msn because i was texting her, and she told me to go on msn before i go to bed.

Cool!

Originally Posted by andrew lucas

yeah i think i do have the right to be a little mad when she is pretending to like me, and see me (come to my house, movies, etc) WHILE she has a secret boyfriend.

Can girls not hang out with boys if they have boyfriends?

Originally Posted by andrew lucas

and lastly, i was asking for advice not a lecture from some random online punk who is assuming stuff in the situation.. honestly buddy i think you need to chill out

All the best with that MSN chat. I'm sure it will go well.

[andrew lucas]

your dumb dude lmao

[Sole]

Originally Posted by andrew lucas

your dumb dude lmao

Thanks buddy

I'm glad I've made you smile, because, lets face it, that's the most you'll ever get from this girl

[andrew lucas]

too bad ive already gotten more