help with girls!!!

wireless · Oct-16-2009, 04:50 PM

i had a girl friend when i was in sixth grade and im in tenth now. i had girls like me but i didnt have interest in them. people in my school think that im gay to the point were guys have asked me out but in not interested in that. im strait and want to be in a relationship but dont know where to start. i like a few girls but dont know what i should do. i feel that alot of the girls say no because the dont want to be known like the girl thats going out with the "gay" kid help please!

LAXguy · Oct-16-2009, 05:42 PM

well, what i suggest is that u start to act more man-ly, if thats how u spell it, i meando u play sports? why do people think your gay?

Casey · Oct-16-2009, 07:47 PM

You could start by finding a girl you like and asking her out and go fom there. It doesn't matter what the guys at school think, gay or otherwise, if you're not.

Love Hope Hero · Oct-16-2009, 07:49 PM

1) Should be moved to Love and Dating, possibly.

2) Why would people think you're gay if you've turned down guys and you're clearly going for girls? The p101 forum won't help you with this, you'll get a lot more advice in the L&D forum, but all I can say is work up a friendship with these girls and build it up bit by bit before asking them out or whatever. By that point they should see you as yourself and not the self-confessed 'gay kid'.

Cloppness · Oct-16-2009, 08:09 PM

you should just holla at shawty, start a conversation, hold a door for a chick, try to be your self!

Anuttymous · Oct-16-2009, 08:48 PM

Pretty much what's already been said, just try to be normal, and get close to some girls you like. Sooner or later, one of 'em'll ask you out, or vice versa.

Casey · Oct-17-2009, 01:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cloppness

you should just holla at shawty

Really? REALLY? REALLY?!

*sigh*

blue's anatomy · Oct-18-2009, 12:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wireless

i had a girl friend when i was in sixth grade and im in tenth now. i had girls like me but i didnt have interest in them. people in my school think that im gay to the point were guys have asked me out but in not interested in that. im strait and want to be in a relationship but dont know where to start. i like a few girls but dont know what i should do. i feel that alot of the girls say no because the dont want to be known like the girl thats going out with the "gay" kid help please!

Girls, no matter what they say or seem to do, being genuine is the most important thing. Just do that and eventually you will find something special.

failed_attempt · Oct-18-2009, 02:19 AM

Quote:

...people in my school think that im gay to the point were guys have asked me out...

Lucky...

Curious Strange · Oct-18-2009, 05:39 PM

Dating in high school really isn't that crucial, I'd say just ignore the people being dumb.

Sirbam · Oct-18-2009, 06:54 PM

First thing, find out if the girls are single haha... Would not be good if they weren't and you asked them out.

Secondly, kind of hint to them you like them, get flirty. Thirdly, make the move. So many people stress over this one "How do I ask them... blah blah blah" Just be confident and ask them plain and simple, don't make it a huge speech. i.e. - "I really like you, will you be my girlfriend?" And what's the worst that can happen? They say no. Oh well, life moves on

You should be fine

Oct-16-2009, 04:50 PM	#1
wireless (stephen) Member Join Date: May 18th, 2008 Male	help with girls!!! i had a girl friend when i was in sixth grade and im in tenth now. i had girls like me but i didnt have interest in them. people in my school think that im gay to the point were guys have asked me out but in not interested in that. im strait and want to be in a relationship but dont know where to start. i like a few girls but dont know what i should do. i feel that alot of the girls say no because the dont want to be known like the girl thats going out with the "gay" kid help please!

Oct-16-2009, 05:42 PM	#2
LAXguy (Jacob) Banned Join Date: May 2nd, 2009 Location: US Male	Re: help with girls!!! well, what i suggest is that u start to act more man-ly, if thats how u spell it, i meando u play sports? why do people think your gay?

Oct-16-2009, 07:49 PM	#4
Love Hope Hero (Pete) Member Join Date: May 10th, 2009 Location: England Age: 17 Male	Re: help with girls!!! 1) Should be moved to Love and Dating, possibly. 2) Why would people think you're gay if you've turned down guys and you're clearly going for girls? The p101 forum won't help you with this, you'll get a lot more advice in the L&D forum, but all I can say is work up a friendship with these girls and build it up bit by bit before asking them out or whatever. By that point they should see you as yourself and not the self-confessed 'gay kid'. __________________ No-one asks to be a hero. It sometimes just turns out that way. IQ: 139 Advanced IQ: 141 I have no idea either..

Oct-16-2009, 08:09 PM	#5
Cloppness (Andrew) Banned Join Date: May 21st, 2007 Location: New York / Cell Block D Age: 16 Male	Re: help with girls!!! you should just holla at shawty, start a conversation, hold a door for a chick, try to be your self!

Oct-16-2009, 08:48 PM	#6
Anuttymous (Nathan) Member Join Date: October 13th, 2009 Location: Earth Age: 17 Male	Re: help with girls!!! Pretty much what's already been said, just try to be normal, and get close to some girls you like. Sooner or later, one of 'em'll ask you out, or vice versa.

Oct-18-2009, 05:39 PM	#10
Curious Strange (Andrew) Member Join Date: July 23rd, 2009 Location: On the corner of Gray Street and the end of the world.. Male	Re: help with girls!!! Dating in high school really isn't that crucial, I'd say just ignore the people being dumb.

Oct-18-2009, 06:54 PM	#11
Sirbam (Dylan) Member Join Date: October 14th, 2009 Location: Southern California Age: 18 Male	Re: help with girls!!! First thing, find out if the girls are single haha... Would not be good if they weren't and you asked them out. Secondly, kind of hint to them you like them, get flirty. Thirdly, make the move. So many people stress over this one "How do I ask them... blah blah blah" Just be confident and ask them plain and simple, don't make it a huge speech. i.e. - "I really like you, will you be my girlfriend?" And what's the worst that can happen? They say no. Oh well, life moves on You should be fine __________________ M/18/bi/restoring "Be the change you wish to see in the world." -Mohandas Gandhi "If revenge is what you seek, be prepared to dig two graves." -Confucious You just lost the game

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