Best friends Age 15

[123con]

What kind of stuff would you talk about with someone who is a 'best friend' id say (just a few of the main topics)
and do you have sleepovers with them ever if so what happens

i'm from england

[Eltacosbello]

i don't go to traditional sleepovers anymore

but, we used to play video games... and in the onset of puberty I can't say we weren't doing things that would be considered "curious", whether that curiosity was truth/dare, just talking about puberty, or looking at 'each other'

[Anuttymous]

By the sounds of it, you either have a new best friend, and aren't quite sure how to handle them, or you have an old best friend, who you're perhaps hoping to get to know better, if you know what I mean.
I only suggest the latter because that's my predicament, heheh, fancying my best friend.
If it's the first one, just act normally, and don't do anything you wouldn't with anyone else.
If it's the second one... I'm stuck there too...

Concerning sleepovers, I've only been to one, and that was for someone birthday, so there were a few of us, so I can't say for sure what will happen one-on-one.
Best of luck! Feel free to criticise my assumptions.

[Malevolent]

Originally Posted by 123con

What kind of stuff would you talk about with someone who is a 'best friend' id say (just a few of the main topics)

Whatever I talk about with regular friends.

Originally Posted by 123con

and do you have sleepovers with them ever if so what happens

Not anymore, but when I did go to them it was mostly TV, games, food.

[blue's anatomy]

Originally Posted by 123con

What kind of stuff would you talk about with someone who is a 'best friend' id say (just a few of the main topics)
and do you have sleepovers with them ever if so what happens

i'm from england

When I was a younger teenager, I would stay at my friends house for the night. Usually we'd go swimming for a while and maybe go to a movie or something. And then we'd play some video games and just kind bull shit around the house and stuff. And then eventually it would end up that we were talking about puberty and then playing truth or dare and stuff.

[Zeus.]

I tell them things I wouldn't normally tell just anyone. More personal things that I know I can trust them with to keep to themself.

Well yea spending the night did happen quite often from age 11 to 16 lol. Shit it still does happen since I have my own apartment. My college friends will come crash at my place if they are sorta messed up from a party.

[joshskates]

With any type of friend, you talk about common interests, beliefs, maybe tell stories of past events, ect...

also since all these "friend" questions are so similar, next time post them all in the same thread. Posting mutiple threads won't get you any extra responses but it will get you a warning, something you don't want

[monopoly man]

girls, life, growing up, school, sex.

now they are all either dead, in college, in military, or out of state now

[Braxton]

Originally Posted by 123con

What kind of stuff would you talk about with someone who is a 'best friend' id say (just a few of the main topics)
and do you have sleepovers with them ever if so what happens

i'm from england

I agree with the others that anything is fair game to discuss with a friend, but it is hard for us to tell you with certainty on what is good or bad for your friend as everything depends upon your relationship with him/her. Factors which might influence your relationship include:

1) length of time you have known each other
2) things you both have in common
3) how comfortable you feel around each other
4) if there are topics which are not to be discussed

Basically, I would play things by the ear and get to know the person, and you might make mistakes here and there as you get to know this person.

In light of this being boy's puberty my guess is that you might want to know if it is all right to talk about sexuality with this person. Again, everything depends on how well you know this person and how comfortable he/she feels about talking about such things. Just don't force things, and be careful about talking about sexuality as people have different comfort levels with that sort of thing.

P.S. Sleepovers are totally fine, and I don't think there is an age cut off for them per se. I don't think there is anything about having a friend sleepover especially if you two are pretty close.

[Peter123]

some of my friends i can talk to about anything.. such as the first people i came out too were my best friends.. and they listened and didnt care weather i was bi or not.. treated me the same ever sense.

[DvDPlayer702]

Me and My Best Friend talk about alot, i mean from our problems, to our sexual escapades, about some porn weve seen, it just depends how long youve known each other and how comfortable certain topics are for you two to talk about.

[RDP 2]

When I used to have sleepovers (age 12-below) with my friends we didn't "experiment" or anything, but we would change in front of each other, that's all.

[Daze]

The usual stuff. Hoppies, sports, video games, girls, school (well probably college now); just about anything. We talked about development a little back when we were young teenagers, but we don't talk about that anymore. Basically, we'd just chill and catch up. I've been close friends with these two guys since I was 8, so basically we've known each other for a decade. Just be relaxed and try not to think so much. Best friends don't tend to have many dull moments in my opinion.

[The3moons]

Nust start talking ans eventually something else may happen.