Need some advice on getting girls.(im a big guy)?

[DWhite]

Hey im 17 and pretty big, but im the nicest and out going guy. I can talk with girls just fine and even flirt but it never goes more then hugs and walking with my arms around them.

What am I missing? Some times i don't know if there is hints that I should be picking up ya know?
I have gone on plenty of dates and have had a good share of flirting ect but I wanna know if im missing something.

[Spunky182]

Don't know really what you're trying to ask exactly. Obviously, it is all about picking the right girl for you. Unfortunately most girls would want to get with the boy with the athletic body shape so it is all about finding a girl that prefers personality over looks/body shape. Plus, if I girl likes you for who you are and not what you look like, you'll find the relationship will function better.

[Sole]

Do you think you are holding yourself back at all? i.e., doing little things that stop you going the full way?

Not carrying a condom
Making it awkward to find a place to have sex

You say you're a big guy, maybe you have a little anxiety about getting undressed infront of a lady? Therefore you try and protect yourself by not letting it get too far.

Make any sense?

[DWhite]

Sole that makes sense I guess but I dont know whats holdong me back and why Im not picking up hints from the ladies ya know? I dont know if its low confidence or I just dont see it? i guess so many girls have said no to me about dating that now I think yes isnt possible.......but at the same time im very good with girls so idk.

[CT107]

I have the same problem i know exactlywhat you mean dude- dont fret- the day will come when you find that special someone

[monopoly man]

Originally Posted by DWhite

Hey im 17 and pretty big, but im the nicest and out going guy. I can talk with girls just fine and even flirt but it never goes more then hugs and walking with my arms around them.

What am I missing? Some times i don't know if there is hints that I should be picking up ya know?
I have gone on plenty of dates and have had a good share of flirting ect but I wanna know if im missing something.

find a pretty big girl who can treat you right

[OMG_It's_Kay!]

Originally Posted by monopoly man

find a pretty big girl who can treat you right

Yeah. I know I wouldn't ever treat a guy like that.
If your amazingly sweet, super nice, knows how to treat a girl, and fun to be with.

There shouldn't be a problem.

But as I have found out, you gotta look super model like. Male underwear model like. All that to get someone, because they only care about that.


But don't change for someone. I know I am not. So what ever comes your way comes your way.