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Old Oct-06-2009, 05:06 PM   #1
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Default One face kills my whole charm.

Of course im going to die unhappy and alone without achieving a family, im taller, stronger, fitter and more active than most boys, intelligent, with wit and charm, manlier, (No boasting meant)and pretty much, all in all, superior and all I have weighing me down is my face.

MY FUCKING FACE, is that it? Is that why so few girls will go out with me?

Their is someone for everyone...

THATS COMPLETE CRAP.

They will love you for who you are...

Who's "They"?

BE CONFIDENT!!!

I've done that for 8 damned years and it has yielded more rejections than any one has seen.

The moer I see these crappy cliche's the more I want to harm someone.

Half them who get all depressed have no reason, they are pretty in the face and have nothing to hold them back, I do, despite all my love and passion, personality and build, intelligence and wit, my face makes me ugly, and im f*cking tired of a life where people judge you by your face rather than your personality.
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Old Oct-06-2009, 06:25 PM   #2
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hmmm.... you say you have charm, and still you say that you are ugly ?
I won't tell you cheessy stuff like being confident, because i think lots of people did that before, but i got a question : what happened to your face ?
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Old Oct-07-2009, 09:11 AM   #3
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Not everyone judge the face, they also judge the personality. I know most judge the face first but slowly when they understand your personality they may start liking you. the right person will come.
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Old Oct-07-2009, 02:17 PM   #4
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hmmm.... you say you have charm, and still you say that you are ugly ?
I won't tell you cheessy stuff like being confident, because i think lots of people did that before, but i got a question : what happened to your face ?
It's natural, im not hidious, im not flinch at, im just a bit ugly.
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Old Oct-07-2009, 02:47 PM   #5
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It's natural, im not hidious, im not flinch at, im just a bit ugly.

If you're ok, than it's ok. People may think about a person from the way that person looks, but mature people will also greatly consider the personality. At least, I do.
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Old Oct-07-2009, 03:13 PM   #6
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If you're ok, than it's ok. People may think about a person from the way that person looks, but mature people will also greatly consider the personality. At least, I do.
To bad, they're in short supply
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Old Oct-07-2009, 04:52 PM   #7
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What if it's not about your face even though you think it is?

Post a picture...

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Old Oct-10-2009, 10:32 PM   #8
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Default Re: One face kills my whole charm.

I will not give you a motivational cliche.

LIFE FUCKING SUCKS.

How's that? It's reality.
Don't be so 'poor me'.
Cause some people don't have legs.

But let's focus on you.
Okay. Why would you want to go out with a girl that loves you FOR your face?
Find the real girl that loves you, and don't be in such a rush, cause there's not many, I KNOW.
Just find her.

Ok? Being pissed isn't going to help anything.
Don't be such in a rush to be with girls.
Because, trust me, once you have a girlfriend that loves a guy only for his face, you'd rather be single.
Girls are obnoxious, self-centered, complaining, and overall annoying.
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Old Oct-11-2009, 05:10 PM   #9
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I will not give you a motivational cliche.

LIFE FUCKING SUCKS.
I like your style.
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Old Oct-11-2009, 06:10 PM   #10
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its your attitude and personality... you can actually be pretty bad looking but if you those things then it doesnt matter
i know people put alot into looks but they are being shallow
look at what you to offer some1 or any1
and go from there
ok you have say you are ugly but THATS your opinion
if your like me and (many people) you are most critical of yourself!
i know you prolly dont want to hear it
but lighten up, because looks can fade!
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Old Oct-15-2009, 08:16 PM   #11
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MY FUCKING FACE, is that it? Is that why so few girls will go out with me?
Implying you have had previous girlfriends....

I have never had a girlfriend, I win.
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Old Oct-31-2009, 02:49 PM   #12
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I think that your paranoid! Happens to every1 but if u looking for a girl then i hope that she likes you for what your soul has to offer!
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Old Nov-01-2009, 10:56 AM   #13
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i will not give you a motivational cliche.

Life fucking sucks.
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i like your style.
f***ing lol!

Seriously though. If you have everything else going for you then thats great. Just focus on the positives.

However, as you seem so concerned with your face...what exactly is the problem? If its acne, just get it treated. If its blochy skin then go and see a dermatologist and start and daily cleanse and moisturising routine. Perhaps the hair cut you have is all wrong and makes doesn't suit your face, so change it. If your face is pudgy then loose a little bit of weight.

Finally, when you said "people just say be yourself"... well... this got me thinking. Heres the thing, what people really meant to say is "show me your best true self" this is hard to do as really most people don't know who they truly deeply are and what their best inner trait is. Once you find out what yours is you can focus on bringing that out, I assure you it isn't easy but it is well worth it. It is a journey of self discovery and a way to gradually gain more confidence.

P.S. Not to echo previous posters, but perhaps you are just a bit paranoid.

P.P.S. You could just post a picture and we could give you the brutally honest truth.
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Old Nov-07-2009, 01:44 PM   #14
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LIFE FUCKING SUCKS.

Ok? Being pissed isn't going to help anything.
Don't be such in a rush to be with girls.
Because, trust me, once you have a girlfriend that loves a guy only for his face, you'd rather be single.
Girls are obnoxious, self-centered, complaining, and overall annoying.
This is probably the best thing I've ever read in a long time. It is true that life sucks because it's the way life goes. Finding a girl that likes you is important, but girls can be very difficult to please at times(no offense to any ladies commenting here). They may decide to test you or just ignore you completely and not talk to you for a while. They may decide that one day they are happy with you and the next, they are not. There are lot of variables that go into finding love. So don't feel bad just because you haven't found a girl that likes you yet. I know that it can be hard because I know how you feel, but you have plenty of time to find someone.
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Old Nov-07-2009, 03:58 PM   #15
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Default Re: One face kills my whole charm.

I think the personality of the person is just as important or even more so as their looks. I have seen girls that are beautiful on the outside but have ugly personalities and I would have nothing to do with them.
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