Pain

[Junky-Kay]

I was wondering, why Love hurt so much? It's like the worst pain i could ever had. I felt in love with this one girl, then the next thing i know, she dumped me. I never had stopped feeling for her. I need help so bad. How can i take her out of my life?

[Karxili'boq]

Originally Posted by Junky-Kay

I was wondering, why Love hurt so much? It's like the worst pain i could ever had. I felt in love with this one girl, then the next thing i know, she dumped me. I never had stopped feeling for her. I need help so bad. How can i take her out of my life?

I'm going through the same experience (cept she led me on, not just a small bit, like trek-sized lead) and I can tell you that it's gunna take a LOT of willpower. You WILL go through difficult periods. I'm not going to lie or cushion the impact here, but you will probably go through at least 1 breakdown if it's really taking hold of you. The best advice I can give is to not fight your feelings. If you feel like crying, grab a box of kleenex and cry, if you feel like hitting something, hit a pillow. Don't bottle it all up, it just makes it harder in the long run.

Also, don't expect it to be over quickly, i'm still in a weird state about it, even though it's coming up to 8 months since it all kicked off. The period of time it will last depends on your feelings for them. If you liked them a bit, it won't last long, but if you really felt strongly about them, then it can last a long time. There isn't much you can do except wait it out and let your emotions out when you feel the need, as they're one of the main causes of this, and bottling them up does you no good.

I'm sorry if it seems hard, but there's no point in wrapping this whole issue in bubble wrap, it just makes it harder.

[Troy]

I wish I could experience this..

[Junky-Kay]

Thanks for your adviceThe Betrayer, i will keep that in mind.

[Exel]

You know, a lot of people say love sucks and it hurts, but only after is over.
I bet when you were with her, you were the happiest person alive, you loved her.
There's nothing much you can really do. If it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be.
I'm sorry, I prolly sound like a douche but I'm just saying the truth man.

Just keep your head up high, you'll be okay.

[Malevolent]

Originally Posted by Junky-Kay

I was wondering, why Love hurt so much? It's like the worst pain i could ever had. I felt in love with this one girl, then the next thing i know, she dumped me. I never had stopped feeling for her. I need help so bad. How can i take her out of my life?

Just pick up and move on. Occupy your thoughts with something other than the separation. The more you think about it, the more it will breed.