Girls - What do you look for in a guy? Guys - How do you meet girls?

[MathewLukeJoe]

Just a quick broad question to all the ladies on the forum - What do you look for when meeting a guy?

I'm just asking cos my "friend" (yeh right) has actually forgotten what its like to meet and like a new girl in a long time, and is finally coming out of my (i mean his) last year at college, and can't wait to meet some more people. I'm not the best looking guy, but I try my best and just need a bit of advice on meeting girls.

And guys - how do you go about meeting new girls? Is it through friends, or just going up to them an introducing yourself? (How do you do this without feeling weird and awkwared?)

Well, help/advice is much appreciated

[bucsfan11]

A good way IMO is if you are around a girl. Say at the store in line you can bring something up about the store. Basically wat I do is look at the seeting and spark up a convo about the seeting. Sounds cheesy but makes you look like a sociable guy and see wat happens from there.

[monopoly man]

every girl has different things attracting them to different guys. there is no one perfect fit for all. sorry

Originally Posted by MathewLukeJoe

And guys - how do you go about meeting new girls? Is it through friends, or just going up to them an introducing yourself? (How do you do this without feeling weird and awkwared?)

i just strike up a conversation with a girl who i fancy, if things go well i ask to see her again. if i don't like what i see then i just end the conversation. if she is into the conversation then she probably likes you, if she gives you short answers and leaves a lot, then she doesn't like you.