Where to go next?

[EastPhily]

me and my gf have been together for about a month and for the past 2 weeks weve just been making out i wanna know what to do next im confused

[Serious-Citrus]

Things usually just happen. It's generally in your best interest not to push or pressure your gf. It also help to ask her if she's okay with going further, just try not to rush.

[Malevolent]

Your relationship will gradually progress. One month isn't a long time though.

[letspartyhard09]

ok u shld probly take the next step to sex in most cases i no pepole start haveing sex be for they even get in the realtion ship 1 month is just to long to go wit out sex while being in a realtion ship you should realy step up the game because the girl is not gona make the move first ill tell u that

[SecularHumanist]

Originally Posted by letspartyhard09

ok u shld probly take the next step to sex in most cases i no pepole start haveing sex be for they even get in the realtion ship 1 month is just to long to go wit out sex while being in a realtion ship you should realy step up the game because the girl is not gona make the move first ill tell u that

1. Learn to type please.

2. Once month is really soon for sex if you ask me.

I'd say that you should naturally progress into more intimate contact. Probably touching and feeling is next followed by oral sex and then intercourse.

[Fatal Injection]

There's really no plan. It all happens on its own, in the heat of the moment.

[ford1001]

i'd wait for at least 1-2 months

[bombasticdude]

well there isn't a waiting period or any thing..it just happens when u both feel ok with it..when both of u trust each other enough and feel that u share eachother...u don't actually plan it

[Iconic]

Originally Posted by Malevolent

Your relationship will gradually progress. One month isn't a long time though.

This, and I think you should wait a bit to have sex at least another month

[letspartyhard09]

haha okay this is the internet i can type how ever i want 2 you learn how to type cuz u clearly cant eathier and u obisly dont get laid much if ur saying wate thts to long to wait

Originally Posted by Freudian Slip

1. Learn to type please.

2. Once month is really soon for sex if you ask me.

I'd say that you should naturally progress into more intimate contact. Probably touching and feeling is next followed by oral sex and then intercourse.

[Zeus.]

Originally Posted by letspartyhard09

haha okay this is the internet i can type how ever i want 2 you learn how to type cuz u clearly cant eathier and u obisly dont get laid much if ur saying wate thts to long to wait

You just opened up a bad case with the wrong person. Actually, This user you speak of gets laid more then you could possibly imagine. I agree with him too. You could at least hit spell check on your computer. The last few sentences make you look drunk.

2. I think you need to let it advance on its own course, sex will come later on in good time when you two are ready.

[SecularHumanist]

Originally Posted by letspartyhard09

haha okay this is the internet i can type how ever i want 2 you learn how to type cuz u clearly cant eathier and u obisly dont get laid much if ur saying wate thts to long to wait

While Austin already tried to defend me I might as well respond. I'm actually in a long-term relationship that is just about to hit two years in October. So I'd say that I actually get laid more than enough. We waited about three months before we started having sex and I think that may have been a bit too soon but I'm over that.

As for my typing: You're actually the first person to ever tell me that I can't type since I clearly am very capable of typing properly. I'm not perfect; I make mistakes. But I'm pretty good. Notice I use capitalization, punctuation, proper spelling, and grammar in my responses. I don't really expect people to use all, or even most, of those in their posts but I would expect at least an attempt at even one of the four. It actually took me a bit to comprehend what you wrote and that's saying something considering how long I've been posting on here.

[letspartyhard09]

lol why r we fighting about who types better once agian this is an intenet teen site i do not have to spell correctly your not my english teacher im not getting graded who cares honestly

[Zeus.]

Originally Posted by letspartyhard09

lol why r we fighting about who types better once agian this is an intenet teen site i do not have to spell correctly your not my english teacher im not getting graded who cares honestly

Well just as a tip, If you want people to take you serious or even be able to read what you type then it helps if they can understand you by using some grammar and syntax.




/done.... wasn't arguing

[Hellbreaker]

1 month it's okay. You could ask her if she is ready to take another step. I wouldn't jump into sex just right away if i were you. Give yourselves some time to know each other better, and after that you could advance into having sexual relations. Also about sex, try to go slow trough it. You can finger each other or masturbate, and after that when you both know you are ready and want to, you can have sex. Also if she's a virgin i'll advise you to be gentle.