Seriously confused

totallygay13 · Sep-24-2009, 11:00 PM

So I asked out this guy a few days ago and even though he turned me down he doesn't seem to remember he doesn't have the same feelings for me that I do for him. today on a school field trip we we're divided into car groups and of course he was in mine. well throughout this entire filed trip he clung to me a lot and when i say clung i mean he really clung. he was grabbing my arm constantly trying to hold my hand hugging me a lot. sometimes he would pull me in really close put his hand on my waist and the other on my shoulder and just stare into my eyes. well I know I shouldn't have let him but i did and now im completely confused. should i bring up the fact that he said he just wants to be friends but is acting like we're going out? i mean when i asked him out he was pretty clear about not liking me. help please. thanks

totallygay13 · Sep-26-2009, 11:21 PM

Any help?

Stoicism · Sep-27-2009, 01:43 AM

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Originally Posted by totallygay13

Any help?

maybe he wasn't sure how he felt about you the first time you asked him and hes dropping hints that he does like.

Persona · Sep-27-2009, 02:39 AM

Ah, young love.

You have to talk to him. There's no other way to figure it out. You could keep sort of guessing, but if you simply confront him about it, you'll have your answers.

totallygay13 · Sep-27-2009, 03:26 AM

I asked him why he was acting the way he was and he didn't say much more than I don't know. I'm getting kind of annoyed by the way he makes me think he likes me and then when I ask him what's going on he just ignores it and changes the subject.

loganjlr · Sep-27-2009, 04:17 AM

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Originally Posted by totallygay13

I asked him why he was acting the way he was and he didn't say much more than I don't know. I'm getting kind of annoyed by the way he makes me think he likes me and then when I ask him what's going on he just ignores it and changes the subject.

he probably changed his mind. Maybe he realized that he really did like you. Sometimes crushes and/or love come in an unexpected rush without any explanation

Malevolent · Sep-27-2009, 04:28 AM

He's obviously giving you signals that he wants you.

2cocoalove · Sep-27-2009, 12:46 PM

be blunt and ask him

Sep-24-2009, 11:00 PM	#1
totallygay13 Member Join Date: December 19th, 2008 Age: 14	Seriously confused So I asked out this guy a few days ago and even though he turned me down he doesn't seem to remember he doesn't have the same feelings for me that I do for him. today on a school field trip we we're divided into car groups and of course he was in mine. well throughout this entire filed trip he clung to me a lot and when i say clung i mean he really clung. he was grabbing my arm constantly trying to hold my hand hugging me a lot. sometimes he would pull me in really close put his hand on my waist and the other on my shoulder and just stare into my eyes. well I know I shouldn't have let him but i did and now im completely confused. should i bring up the fact that he said he just wants to be friends but is acting like we're going out? i mean when i asked him out he was pretty clear about not liking me. help please. thanks __________________

Sep-26-2009, 11:21 PM	#2
totallygay13 Member Join Date: December 19th, 2008 Age: 14	Re: Seriously confused Any help? __________________

Sep-27-2009, 02:39 AM	#4
Persona Member Join Date: May 17th, 2007 Location: US Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Seriously confused Ah, young love. You have to talk to him. There's no other way to figure it out. You could keep sort of guessing, but if you simply confront him about it, you'll have your answers.

Sep-27-2009, 03:26 AM	#5
totallygay13 Member Join Date: December 19th, 2008 Age: 14	Re: Seriously confused I asked him why he was acting the way he was and he didn't say much more than I don't know. I'm getting kind of annoyed by the way he makes me think he likes me and then when I ask him what's going on he just ignores it and changes the subject. __________________

Sep-27-2009, 04:28 AM	#7
Malevolent Banned Join Date: June 26th, 2007	Re: Seriously confused He's obviously giving you signals that he wants you.

Sep-27-2009, 12:46 PM	#8
2cocoalove Member Join Date: August 22nd, 2009 Female	Re: Seriously confused be blunt and ask him __________________ 14/female/straight

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