How would I?

Hollisterboi · Sep-24-2009, 10:57 PM

Ok, I don't know if this allowed or not, but here it goes.

Ok, so in my math class, there is a way cute guy. He acts like a girl a bit and I just tell everone I'm straight because I'm afraid of what they would think. Anyway, a girl in my class asked me if I was gay, and so I said no. I have never had a relationship with a guy, but I really want to have one seceretly. So, I think he is gay, and I wouldn't mind having a sort of relationship with him, because he is really nice and kind. So, my question is, do I just wait, make a move, let him come to me, give him little things that would turn him on that I do with my body...what?!?

Thanks guys!

SecularHumanist · Sep-24-2009, 11:21 PM

Have you ever talked to him before?

Generally speaking you'd want to be at least on friendly terms with someone first. That way you can at least make a half-educated guess as to his sexuality.

Hollisterboi · Sep-24-2009, 11:25 PM

I have made small talk, there are soo many girls in the class, I don't want one thinking im gay or anything, so I just pretend I don't know he is. But I look at him and he looks at me, and we smile a bit at each other, so is that like a hint from him? Im a sophmore and I think he's a junior, but we could still be friends right?

Puer Aeternus · Sep-24-2009, 11:43 PM

You could still be friends, yeah. But a smile doesn't mean much other than he's friendly. Get to know him a lot better first.

Hollisterboi · Sep-25-2009, 08:53 PM

Ok thanks!
Also, is there any hints I could give, or that he might give that I should look out for, or am I being way to foreward?

FarrSight · Sep-25-2009, 09:58 PM

Well just straight up ask him I'd say, because if you're straight acting and not out to anyone, then he's not going to know you're interested, and he's probably not going to look for signs that you're gay.

cum on lets go! · Sep-25-2009, 10:50 PM

can't you flirt with him via aim or txt? or do what middleschool kiddies do and get his email & add him on MS and picture comment everything. If he's interested he'll respond.

Hollisterboi · Sep-25-2009, 10:59 PM

I would so text, but I need a new phone, so thats not going to work. But I can try and talk to him a little more : )

Persona · Sep-26-2009, 12:04 AM

So, you don't want anyone in your class to know you're gay, but you want to be in a relationship with this guy? While I understand that to some extent, you should consider changing your perspective a bit...

AB42 · Sep-26-2009, 12:40 PM

dude im totally in the same situation. except theres a boy in my chem class. But anyways ive been straight acting too. I would just go up to him after class and tell him you need to talk. And tell him how you feel.

Hollisterboi · Sep-27-2009, 12:49 AM

I guess I could, but my parents and family are christian, and I don't want someone finding out at my shool and telling at church or something. I could, but I want to get know him first. I guess I'll lead him on a bit, and get to be friends and see were it goes from there

Hollisterboi · Sep-28-2009, 08:30 PM

Well, I am not sure that he likes me, or if he is really gay, so I don't think I'm going to go face to face and ask, but I did get a cell phone! I hope sometime, we will fall for each other, and, emotionally, I can be relived, as well a little on the sexual side. ; D
Thanks guys for giving direction!

Sep-24-2009, 10:57 PM	#1
Hollisterboi (Jack) Member Join Date: August 26th, 2009 Location: Underwater Male	How would I? Ok, I don't know if this allowed or not, but here it goes. Ok, so in my math class, there is a way cute guy. He acts like a girl a bit and I just tell everone I'm straight because I'm afraid of what they would think. Anyway, a girl in my class asked me if I was gay, and so I said no. I have never had a relationship with a guy, but I really want to have one seceretly. So, I think he is gay, and I wouldn't mind having a sort of relationship with him, because he is really nice and kind. So, my question is, do I just wait, make a move, let him come to me, give him little things that would turn him on that I do with my body...what?!? Thanks guys!

Sep-24-2009, 11:25 PM	#3
Hollisterboi (Jack) Member Join Date: August 26th, 2009 Location: Underwater Male	Re: How would I? I have made small talk, there are soo many girls in the class, I don't want one thinking im gay or anything, so I just pretend I don't know he is. But I look at him and he looks at me, and we smile a bit at each other, so is that like a hint from him? Im a sophmore and I think he's a junior, but we could still be friends right?

Sep-24-2009, 11:43 PM	#4
Puer Aeternus (Mike) Member Join Date: October 12th, 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Age: 18 Male	Re: How would I? You could still be friends, yeah. But a smile doesn't mean much other than he's friendly. Get to know him a lot better first. __________________ Don't talk to me about destiny. Destiny doesn't run a 5k before every practice. Destiny doesn't push this hard. Destiny's never driven two hours to practice. Destiny doesn't get back up again and again and again. Destiny makes excuses. Destiny doesn't remember. With five seconds left, destiny panics. Destiny doesn't decide if we win. We do. GO CANADA GO! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9KctxKiO4w&NR=1

Sep-25-2009, 08:53 PM	#5
Hollisterboi (Jack) Member Join Date: August 26th, 2009 Location: Underwater Male	Re: How would I? Ok thanks! Also, is there any hints I could give, or that he might give that I should look out for, or am I being way to foreward?

Sep-25-2009, 09:58 PM	#6
FarrSight (David) Member Join Date: January 29th, 2005 Location: Shelton, WA Age: 16 Male	Re: How would I? Well just straight up ask him I'd say, because if you're straight acting and not out to anyone, then he's not going to know you're interested, and he's probably not going to look for signs that you're gay. __________________ 16/gay/USA ++++ I LUV COMPUTERS ++++

Sep-25-2009, 10:50 PM	#7
cum on lets go! Member Join Date: April 17th, 2008	Re: How would I? can't you flirt with him via aim or txt? or do what middleschool kiddies do and get his email & add him on MS and picture comment everything. If he's interested he'll respond.

Sep-25-2009, 10:59 PM	#8
Hollisterboi (Jack) Member Join Date: August 26th, 2009 Location: Underwater Male	Re: How would I? I would so text, but I need a new phone, so thats not going to work. But I can try and talk to him a little more : )

Sep-26-2009, 12:04 AM	#9
Persona Member Join Date: May 17th, 2007 Location: US Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: How would I? So, you don't want anyone in your class to know you're gay, but you want to be in a relationship with this guy? While I understand that to some extent, you should consider changing your perspective a bit...

Sep-26-2009, 12:40 PM	#10
AB42 (Anthony) New Member Join Date: September 12th, 2009 Male	Re: How would I? dude im totally in the same situation. except theres a boy in my chem class. But anyways ive been straight acting too. I would just go up to him after class and tell him you need to talk. And tell him how you feel.

Sep-27-2009, 12:49 AM	#11
Hollisterboi (Jack) Member Join Date: August 26th, 2009 Location: Underwater Male	Re: How would I? I guess I could, but my parents and family are christian, and I don't want someone finding out at my shool and telling at church or something. I could, but I want to get know him first. I guess I'll lead him on a bit, and get to be friends and see were it goes from there

Sep-28-2009, 08:30 PM	#12
Hollisterboi (Jack) Member Join Date: August 26th, 2009 Location: Underwater Male	Re: How would I? Well, I am not sure that he likes me, or if he is really gay, so I don't think I'm going to go face to face and ask, but I did get a cell phone! I hope sometime, we will fall for each other, and, emotionally, I can be relived, as well a little on the sexual side. ; D Thanks guys for giving direction!

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