Who's in the right here?

[Ben!]

Right well, last night I went to a party with a load of mates. It ended at around 12am and we all got a taxi back. We were all staying at someones house and I 1 am I said that I wanted to go to sleep.

3 of them wanted to stay up and keep partying so the girl (who's house it was) gave me the option to leave or stay and party. I live half an hour away and its 1am so I decided to go home. She then sends me a text saying I've let her down and ruined her fun.

Wtf is that all about? I've had flu over this last week so Im drained from that already. She knows that yet some how me being tired and wanting sleep is all my fault?

thoughts?

Ben.

[Luke]

You.

It's up to you if you want to stay or go, personally I'd be annoyed at the fact she made me leave her house, rather than just sleep elsewhere, nevermind the fact that she then said I'd let her down.

[Ben!]

Originally Posted by Luke

You.

It's up to you if you want to stay or go, personally I'd be annoyed at the fact she made me leave her house, rather than just sleep elsewhere, nevermind the fact that she then said I'd let her down.

Thank you! The house was empty. There were 3 empty bedrooms and she made me leave.

[Jack.]

You're in the right. You wanted to go home, you did. She didn't like your choice, and reacted badly. But you are in the right.

[Kevin]

Doesn't seem to me like you've done anything wrong; really it just sounds like she's pissy for the sake of being pissy. If you didn't want to party, well who's she to tell you to do something you don't want to do?

[loganjlr]

You acted on your choice to go home. In my opinion, she's just being plain crappy.

[Seishun Samurai]

I think that she is being manipulitive - she seems to have wanted you to stay, but why didn't she just ask you to stay? To make you feel guilty if you left. You should probably ask her about it, and if she's a good friend, try not to get mad at her if she's edgy about it. Perhaps she got drunk or something after you left, and she's a sad drunk...the only way to know what's up is to communicate with her.

[Ben!]

Originally Posted by Seishun Samurai

I think that she is being manipulitive - she seems to have wanted you to stay, but why didn't she just ask you to stay? To make you feel guilty if you left. You should probably ask her about it, and if she's a good friend, try not to get mad at her if she's edgy about it. Perhaps she got drunk or something after you left, and she's a sad drunk...the only way to know what's up is to communicate with her.

I know she's manipulative. Her boyfriend (my best friend) wont even talk to me because of what I've done. She's also quite pathetic. She blows the smallest thing up in to something huge usually unnecessarily.

[Malevolent]

She's just angry you left her party. You're in the right in this case, obviously.

[Sole]

She's a bit crazy. I bet she is hot right? Girls like that are hot.

Ben, 100% best thing you can do is ignore this nonsense.

Your best friend is acting a bit of a cunt, lets be fair. He should be telling this bitch to settle down.

In the mean time, ignore this thing, if you don't react it will die down

[Shreyas]

its your choice whether to stay or leave, you did nothing wrong.

[Love Hope Hero]

You're in the right as far as I see things.

You wanted to go home. She gave you a choice to go home or stay and you went home. Then she gave you shit for going home. Don't let it bother you man, I know some girls like that (not many admittedly but they do come around every so often) and I bet if you chose to stay instead of going home she'd find some reason to give you shit over that as well. Just ignore it man.

[Tristen19]

Sounds like a control freak to me, my way or the highway. If your tired your tired and if you want to lay down, what the hell is wrong with that? How is your laying down, interfering with them continuing to party? I don't get it. and then to let you leave or make you leave in that condition is way low life to me. If I were you, I'd tell all of them to kiss my ass and then find some real friends because they are losers for real.