How do guys last long enough to make love for hours?

[Krash13]

I'm a virgin and I have a Fleshlight sex toy and I noticed that I can only last about 20-30 seconds from when I start thrusting to orgasm and I still can't last longer even after "practicing" more. I read that after guys lose their virginity that they will be able to last longer after practicing by simply having more sex with his girlfriend, but I can't seem to last longer. I always hear people talking about "that amazing time I had sex for hours with my boyfriend/girlfriend", so does that mean the guy was thrusting for hours and somehow was able to last long enough to not climax, or does those hours making love include making out, oral sex, cuddling and stuff like that?

[Malevolent]

Time and practice. Simple as that.

And to clear things up, I doubt having actual sexual intercourse for hours would be comfortable for anybody. It's just a saying. Most people don't fuck each other senseless from 8 AM to 12 PM.

[Molon Labe]

With my current girlfriend, yes I can go more or less non stop for about an hour. But then I'm probably not going to have sex for the rest of the night. If I go for less time then I'm more like to be be able to do it again later.

[Zeus.]

I dont know who you are talking too, but I sure as hell cant go from sunrise to sundown. Maybe at the most 30 or 45 minutes. It all depends on the person. Endurance and Stamina are going to increase and get better as you grow and mature. So dont worry so much about it.

[Sparks]

you might be getting this idea from porn movies, If that is not the case, i apologise, but porn movies make it appear like both people can go on forever... that's just bladderdash, fake. erm... if you want to last longer before you orgasm, you need the self dicipline to stop "thrusting" when you feel the orgasm coming. (some people say that the longer you hold back from orgasm during masturbation the better the orgasm feels at the end and I agree. also, you may notice during masturbation that you are clenching a muscle that feels like it's somewhere between the penis and anus. clenching that muscle puts pressure on the male "g-spot" and increses pleasure. however, it does dramatically reduce the time before orgasm. you need to relax that muscle and you should be able to hold off the orgasm. I give you this info because I asssume you are wanting to know how you can last longer.

hope this answers your questions

Sparks

[hightimes]

im a virgin but id guess using stop and go it would last longer

[Dan_1994]

I have no idea. I have been able to jo for up to 2hrs on a few differant occasions (don't ask how, I don't know! Pretty erm.... Amazing though.), but I think lasting long in sex would be 100x harder. I would geuss stop n go.

[ScotsFury]

Being a virgin too, idk about sex but if you don't clench that muscle you can last longer. Also google kegel exercises.

[Brad!]

Some people, yes, can go for around an hour.. But some of the things you may hear are commonly over-exagurations.

[swed2012]

I've never gone an hour but pretty close to it

[shawn]

Don't know about making love cause I'm a virgin too but as i've been able to make jackin last longer, ir's practice and excercise. Just try the stop & go rhing and google an excercise called "KEGEL" It helped me a lot. Before I started them I was lucky to go 2min without cuming, now I last go almost an hour You gotta be patient though just like any muscle it takes time.

[guitarist]

They lie or exaggerate...

[DawnCaster]

Your 15, you don't learn real restraint in these things until your mind and body mature (I'd say around 18-19). Plus it depends alot on how good your partner is.

Masturbation and sex are completely different. The first is purely for pleasure, you have no boobies to grope. Where as, sex entitles you to tittie free roam, and it's less about the final climax.

[madgeisgod]

To reiterate what others have said, masturbation and sex are very different. I can get off in like 10 seconds masturbating, but sex takes me quite a while.

[toby_hinkle]

Sex is alot more than just thrusting your dick in and out some girls vagina. But as for that part of it, take your time, go slow at first, if you feel like you're gonna cum, then stop thrusting, wait for the sensation to go away, then start again. It can be an issue of mind over penis. Concentrate more on the girl you are having sex with than the sensations in your dick. Longest I ever lasted was like 45 minutes. Just remember that sex just isnt about getting off, it's about being close with your significant other as well. The orgasm is just the icing in the cake.