i still like my ex and i told her i like her

[bobbert47]

i still like my ex and i told her i like her. she told me that she likes this guy. and then i told her that i thought a girl looked nice. well should i still go for her? b/c after we broke up, (around march 09) she dated 3 other guys. we stilll talk and like hang out together. does she still like me? she's always on my mind. please give me advice b/c i'm so stress out, half of my me tells me i should go for her then i shouldn't then i should then i shouldn't so i dunno. so i want you guys if i should or should not.

here is me and her talking: she is aiv and i am bobby i shorten our names so u guys won't figure out our aim





aiv (6:49:22 PM): BOBBY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
aiv(6:49:40 PM): why are you in my wing before lunch?
aiv is available (6:50:12 PM)
lalalala
bobbyl (6:50:12 PM): i have a class in red wing i think
aiv (6:50:26 PM): is there a kid named alex in it?
bobbyl (6:50:33 PM): no
bobbyl(6:50:36 PM): why
aiv (6:50:38 PM): ok nvm
aiv (6:51:12 PM): whod you sit with today at lunch?.
bobby (6:51:24 PM): sarah and like some other people
aiv (6:51:26 PM): ...is there a kid named alex in any of your classes?
aiv (6:51:30 PM): ohhh
bobby (6:51:37 PM): no i don't think so
aiv (6:51:58 PM): k
aiv (6:52:17 PM): did you buy lunch today?
bobby (6:52:26 PM): yeah i was in patriot line
aiv (6:52:42 PM): ok cool...where u behind a guy?
bobby (6:52:46 PM): was gonna get hot lunch but then their was too many people
aiv (6:53:01 PM): yeha where you behind a guy?
bobby (6:53:12 PM): yea
aiv (6:53:21 PM): was he tallo...like taller then me?
bobby (6:53:33 PM): no
aiv (6:53:40 PM): ok then nvm
aiv (6:54:26 PM): anyway...see any girls you think are cute???
bobby (6:54:34 PM): maybe
aiv (6:54:39 PM): really?!?!?
bobby (6:54:40 PM): how about you? any guys?
aiv (6:54:45 PM): yeah like one
bobby (6:55:04 PM): yeah really
aiv (6:55:12 PM): anyway abotu the girls!! who?!?!?
bobby (6:55:32 PM): i think her name is brianna
aiv (6:55:41 PM): whats she look like?!?!??!?!|\
bobby (6:55:46 PM): nice
aiv (6:55:53 PM): hmph
aiv (6:56:19 PM): well do you talk to her?
bobby (6:56:52 PM): na were only in one class tech ed
aiv (6:57:06 PM): good
bobby (6:57:33 PM): how about you? who you like
aiv (6:57:44 PM): i think his name is alex idk
aiv (6:57:48 PM): hes in our lunch period
bobby (6:58:10 PM): you know if he's in blue or red wing?
aiv (6:58:32 PM): red
aiv (6:58:38 PM): y?
bobbylor (6:59:02 PM): nothin
aiv (6:59:11 PM): tell me!!
bobby (6:59:22 PM): just wondering
aiv (6:59:59 PM): comeon tell me
bobby (7:00:22 PM): no really it's nothing
aiv (7:00:35 PM): comeone
aiv (7:01:02 PM): if i say y and u say nothin its something you should have said no reason or jutwondering if it was nothing
aiv (7:01:19 PM): do you know him?
bobby (7:01:24 PM): no
aiv (7:01:28 PM): u sure?!
bobby (7:01:30 PM): yeah
aiv (7:02:11 PM): hey...um yesterday he sat kinda like diagnle from us and he was wearing like a white and blue striped sweatshirt
aiv (7:02:23 PM): anyway what was the reason?
aiv is available (7:02:42 PM)
bobby (7:03:33 PM): no reason
aiv (7:03:40 PM): tell ,e
aiv (7:03:46 PM): tell me!
aiv (7:04:08 PM): it mAKEAS ME SAD WHEN YOu lie to your own sister'\\\\\
aiv (7:05:52 PM): fine be that way...il never ever be your bestest buddy
aiv is available (7:06:10 PM)
aiv (7:06:56 PM): hmph\
aiv (7:08:31 PM): hmph
bobbyl (7:09:14 PM): ok i'll tell u
aiv (7:09:20 PM): okay!
aiv (7:09:24 PM): what is it?
bobby (7:10:15 PM): i thought he was in one of my class but now i know he's in red wing
aiv (7:10:55 PM): oh yeah...sure..i just asked you earlier if you had an alex in any of your classes
aiv (7:11:53 PM): hmmm
aiv (7:12:10 PM): what wing is your future gf in?
bobby (7:12:27 PM): i think blue hopefully
aiv (7:12:35 PM): lolz gl.........
bobby (7:12:48 PM): same here gl
aiv (7:12:57 PM): you know ill rock it lolz
bobby (7:13:05 PM): btw i don't need luck
aiv (7:13:06 PM): but seriously i will
aiv (7:13:13 PM): yeah you do!!!
aiv (7:13:15 PM): lolz
aiv (7:13:28 PM): cuz you need me to say shes okay b4 you can date her
bobby (7:13:46 PM): why
aiv (7:13:48 PM): you better hope shes not a slut and she passes the test
aiv (7:13:50 PM): lolz
aiv1 (7:13:53 PM): idk
aiv (7:13:58 PM): im your sister\
bobby (7:14:07 PM): lol i hope she is a slut
aiv (7:14:20 PM): OMG!!!!!!!!!!
bobby (7:14:26 PM): jk jk
aiv (7:14:34 PM): well i hope the guy i like isnt a man whore
aiv (7:14:37 PM): eek
aiv (7:14:38 PM): eww
aiv (7:14:47 PM): i dont think he is stephy said hes a good bf
aiv (7:15:05 PM): .lol...how long do you think b4 we start going out?
aiv (7:15:24 PM): lolzzzzzzzz
aiv (7:15:25 PM): zzzzz\
aiv (7:15:28 PM): zzzzzz\\
aiv (7:15:29 PM): zzzz
aiv (7:15:30 PM): zzzz
aiv (7:15:31 PM): zz
bobby (7:15:32 PM): ????????
aiv (7:15:42 PM): okay then anyway
aiv (7:15:48 PM): whats she look like?
bobbyl (7:16:10 PM): hot
aiv (7:16:13 PM): eww
aiv (7:16:22 PM): no seriosly
bobby (7:16:25 PM): lol
aiv (7:16:28 PM): like what color hair
aiv (7:16:31 PM): what color eyes
bobbyl (7:16:48 PM): i don't remember her hair proabbly like brown with highlights
aiv (7:16:54 PM): shes prolly ugly.,..or imaginary since i wont tell me
aiv1 (7:17:00 PM): * u
aiv (7:17:10 PM): i dont believe you
bobby (7:17:10 PM): she ain't ugly or imaginary
bobby (7:17:34 PM): she's in tech ed with me, stephine, shannon, tyler, and some other kids
aiv (7:18:06 PM): okay the truth is if a guy likes a girl he'll think about her before he goes to bed...guys also decide within the first 3-7 seconds wether they like a girl so if yiou really did ud remember
aiv (7:18:37 PM): anyway...you told me that if you really think a girl is pretty sometime s you dream about her
bobby (7:18:38 PM): lol where u learn that
aiv (7:18:43 PM): i know stuff
bobby (7:19:01 PM): no i don't dream about her i just met her like a day ago
aiv (7:19:05 PM): soo
aiv (7:19:15 PM): i havnt even met the guy i like
aiv (7:19:24 PM): sit with me on tuesday ill show you the guy
bobby (7:19:24 PM): i'll hook u guys up
bobby (7:19:28 PM): ok
aiv (7:19:37 PM): no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
aiv (7:19:51 PM): thats steph's job lolz jk
aiv (7:19:55 PM): but really
aiv (7:20:34 PM): I have a question ...tell me the truth
bobby (7:20:43 PM): lol
bobby (7:20:47 PM): esy
aiv (7:20:48 PM): promise
bobby (7:20:50 PM): wat*
aiv (7:20:56 PM): promise first'
bobby (7:20:57 PM): i'll try
aiv (7:21:03 PM): [ROMISE!
bobby (7:21:11 PM): yeah sure
aiv (7:21:12 PM): PROMISE!
aiv (7:21:25 PM): say I promise
bobby (7:22:00 PM): i solemly swear
bobby (7:22:03 PM): on my life
aiv (7:22:05 PM): okay
aiv (7:22:25 PM): Do you miss going out with me? Do you still like me?
aiv is available (7:23:11 PM)
I love my teachers they are super nice
bobby (7:23:12 PM): sorta sorta, but it doesn't erally matter
aiv (7:23:23 PM): okzy
aiv (7:23:26 PM): i believe
aiv (7:23:28 PM): you
aiv (7:24:01 PM): sdhjdhjwdsyeioye2ghjksv
aiv (7:24:02 PM): ['dfsgiudeegw
aiv (7:24:03 PM): [adwbhioegsvp
aiv (7:24:05 PM): ];gkuc
aiv (7:24:06 PM): v
aiv (7:24:07 PM): dhglijr;
aiv (7:24:08 PM): 'edn
aiv (7:24:10 PM): d,v
aiv (7:24:14 PM): lolz
bobby (7:24:19 PM): nice
aiv (7:24:31 PM): yeah
aiv (7:24:36 PM): anyway gtg bye
aiv (7:24:40 PM): talk to you later
bobby (7:24:42 PM): k bye
aiv (7:24:50 PM): bye
aiv is offline (7:33:56 PM)

[Elysium]

I don't know. It's really hard to decipher. IN MY OPINION, there are some indications that she may still possess feelings for you. For example, the way she is pushy on you and keeps trying to get answers out of you and especially when, after you tell her that you still do have feelings, she keeps typing random things (to get the previous messages out of the way (out of eye sight), a nervous tendency that some people do. It's up to everyone to interpret however, and I am just one person. Wait for other answers to determine a consensus.

[Malevolent]

I agree with the poster above me that she may still have feelings for you. She does indeed seem a bit clingy, and he need for an answer is obvious (to me at least). What you will do though is up to you. I don't think people you don't know over the internet should be telling you who to date. If you think there's a chance you two might work, go for it.

[bobbert47]

ok thanks everyone it really helps but i need more answers

[Malevolent]

Originally Posted by bobbert47

ok thanks everyone it really helps but i need more answers

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[The Mysoginator]

Forwhat it's worth I reckon she does have some feeling for you but...

Originally Posted by bobbert47

ok thanks everyone it really helps but i need more answers

You don't need any answers from anybody on this site. You know the dynamic better than anybody here does and it's up to you to weigh the pros and cons of getting with this girl again.

[bobbert47]

Originally Posted by The Mysoginator

Forwhat it's worth I reckon she does have some feeling for you but...



You don't need any answers from anybody on this site. You know the dynamic better than anybody here does and it's up to you to weigh the pros and cons of getting with this girl again.

yes you are right i don't need answers from this site. but i do need help to interpret if she likes me or another guy. i also need your guys opinons. AND if this matters, we're both 13 and she's mulatto and i'm asian. she's taller then me.

[DudeD1020]

Hey um Op you might want to think and remember why you broke up, and yeah she has at least sibling love 4 you

[bobbert47]

Originally Posted by DudeD1020

Hey um Op you might want to think and remember why you broke up, and yeah she has at least sibling love 4 you

what does op mean? and yeah...

[Malevolent]

Originally Posted by bobbert47

what does op mean?

OP is short for original poster.

[Luke]

Yeah she seems very clingy (irritatingly so in my personal opinion) and I would definately say she still has feelings for you, as she's asking so much about whether you like anyone yet etc etc.

[bobbert47]

Originally Posted by Luke

Yeah she seems very clingy (irritatingly so in my personal opinion) and I would definately say she still has feelings for you, as she's asking so much about whether you like anyone yet etc etc.

do you think she likes another guy?

[Luke]

Possibly, but I would say its more likely that she's saying she does to try to make you jealous.

[bobbert47]

Originally Posted by Luke

Possibly, but I would say its more likely that she's saying she does to try to make you jealous.

so you still think i have a chance with the girl? and by how much percent?

[Stoicism]

all she wanted out of that im conversation was to know who you like and if you still have any feelings for her. to some degree she still likes you. ask her out(if you want.)