been hard for me to meet another girl =/

[Donut06]

okay so my girlfriend who i thought was the only one for me broke up with me about a month ago cause she needs space but its obv. another guy. we went out for a pretty long time and i she was PERFECT for me. now that shes gone its been so hard for me to move on and meet other girls and stuff. all i do is work, gym and do nothing afterwards cause i always have work the next morrowing. now college classes are gonna start up again and its gonna be even harder on me cause im taking night classes cause i work during the day. so when classes start all its gonna be is work till 5. gym till 8 then classes at 9 till 11. its gonna be hard for me cause we were so into each other and i loved her so much and now we dont even talk at all and stuff. been so down this last month and got no one to talk to.

[Shreyas]

Time is the healer to this, you need to move on. Keep yourself busy with various things, make some more friends which you can talk, spend time and hang out with.keeping busy will help you. You can also meet a counselor, he will help you in the situation.

[And?]

I don't agree that keeping busy will help you; keeping busy will distract you, sure, but seeing as how the issue is being too busy to meet new people, well, it seems as though that would be slightly pointless.

I do have a question: Aren't there people at the gym/school/night classes? These seem the perfect time to meet people - you've already got at least one thing in common with them.

[The Mysoginator]

Mate, if she dumped you for another guy then she's obviously not worth your time. As Jack pointed out you already have some great opportunities to meet people, just take some of them and see what happens.