Arghh confused, help ?

Dannyavfc · Aug-03-2009, 07:37 PM

Okay here is the situation ..
I'm 15 and I go to a boys school .
When I'm horny I think that maybe I'm bisexual or certainly curious but when I'm bot horny I find the idea unthinkable . I'm really confused and I'm not sure what to do . Anyone else in this situation ?

Éireannach · Aug-03-2009, 07:43 PM

I go to a boys school too if that makes my opinion any more credible.

The fact that the idea disgusts you when you aren't horny shows that you are not bisexual. Ask yourself this, in your horny moments have you ever imagined kissing another man or is it just sex acts?

luxray1993 · Aug-03-2009, 07:44 PM

I am not in that situation, but what i can say is if your horny at a all boys school,
you think your bi, cuz there arent girls there, i think its just hormones, and nothing
to worry about.

Michael's question makes sence.

If you are worried about anything, to an extreme, you can always go to a boy and girsl school.

**hehe** · Aug-03-2009, 07:54 PM

When you're horny, things that are not normally arousing become arousing. That happens to everybody. It's not something to worry about.

Dannyavfc · Aug-03-2009, 08:01 PM

Thanks guys .
I'm not worried to an extreme at all .
I just wish the problem would go away aha

And? · Aug-03-2009, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Dannyavfc

Thanks guys .
I'm not worried to an extreme at all .
I just wish the problem would go away aha

Try to think of the positive of a situation, not a negative.

You say: "These thoughts are problematic for me because they make me confused."

I say: "These thoughts, whilst confusing, help me decide who I am."

There's always something good out there.

kdee · Aug-03-2009, 10:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dannyavfc

Okay here is the situation ..
I'm 15 and I go to a boys school .
When I'm horny I think that maybe I'm bisexual or certainly curious but when I'm bot horny I find the idea unthinkable . I'm really confused and I'm not sure what to do . Anyone else in this situation ?

Anyone else see an unusual correlation of students who attend a one-gender school and the resulting numbers of gay and bi curious population?

You may be "born" one way, but no one should say that that can't be changed by environmental factors....

At anyrate, don't be confused. The important thing is that you realize that your feelings are going to be extremely varied at your age, and that it is vital that you act on REASON and not on emotion or feelings. In time, these feelings are urges will subside, and you will discover a clear and well-defined path for your own sexuality.

All of this will happen automatically. So, sit back, and enjoy the ride without trying to take any steps to intervene in anyway..

Danny18 · Aug-03-2009, 10:26 PM

There is an adage, "A hard dick has no conscience" meaning sometimes, anything is acceptable lol but that doesn't mean your not possibly bi either. When your not horny, your probably not thinking sexual but when you are, well then you are.

J.D. · Aug-03-2009, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by kdee

Anyone else see an unusual correlation of students who attend a one-gender school and the resulting numbers of gay and bi curious population?

You may be "born" one way, but no one should say that that can't be changed by environmental factors....

Thank you Dr Freud...I agree btw.

to answer the op, if you explore the realm of bisexuality or gay, be careful and be just as safe as if you were with a girl, all I can think is that your sexuality may be hard (no pun intended) to discover but whatever you are, we're behind ya....so to speak

theaterman25 · Aug-04-2009, 01:14 AM

Dang, this is crazy.

I go to a boys school and experience the same things as you.

Honestly, it's just hormones, and you're only 15 (like me) and it's very hard to know your sexuality now. Just give it time.

cjmax272 · Aug-04-2009, 01:32 AM

ok now if u feel tht way u might be bi thats good or just u dont see girls so thats what u resorted 2.

thefly1001 · Aug-04-2009, 02:41 AM

im not but u will or would know tht ur bi or gay because everyone thinks theyre bi before they think theyre gay(or at least a good bit does) and it might be because ur stuck in a boys school and sub consciously thinking u would like someone any gender to do sexual things with and seeing how there no girls ur brain turn to male

Bombs Go Boom · Aug-04-2009, 02:46 AM

I no some people who go to an all boy school they don't have this problem but I think that you are thinking that only because your horny. When guys get an erection it's like all the blood leaves are head and goes to our dicks XD

blue's anatomy · Aug-04-2009, 09:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dannyavfc

Okay here is the situation ..
I'm 15 and I go to a boys school .
When I'm horny I think that maybe I'm bisexual or certainly curious but when I'm bot horny I find the idea unthinkable . I'm really confused and I'm not sure what to do . Anyone else in this situation ?

Well I'm really confused as to what you are disgusted about. If I'm reading this correctly, when you are horny you think that you are bisexual because you go to an all boys school. Do you think you are bisexual when you're horny because you start looking at your classmates?

Éireannach · Aug-04-2009, 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by J.D.

Thank you Dr Freud...I agree btw.

Quote:

Originally Posted by kdee

Anyone else see an unusual correlation of students who attend a one-gender school and the resulting numbers of gay and bi curious population?

You may be "born" one way, but no one should say that that can't be changed by environmental factors...

Here in Ireland, the single sex grammar schools are extremely common and I just feel the need to point out that we still have a relatively low gay population. (I just felt a little bit insulted about your assumptions towards single sex schools)

Aug-03-2009, 07:37 PM	#1
Dannyavfc Banned Join Date: May 27th, 2009 Location: Birmingham , Uk Male	Arghh confused, help ? Okay here is the situation .. I'm 15 and I go to a boys school . When I'm horny I think that maybe I'm bisexual or certainly curious but when I'm bot horny I find the idea unthinkable . I'm really confused and I'm not sure what to do . Anyone else in this situation ?

Aug-03-2009, 07:43 PM	#2
Éireannach (Michael) Member Join Date: September 27th, 2006 Location: South Armagh (Ireland) Age: 18 Male My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Arghh confused, help ? I go to a boys school too if that makes my opinion any more credible. The fact that the idea disgusts you when you aren't horny shows that you are not bisexual. Ask yourself this, in your horny moments have you ever imagined kissing another man or is it just sex acts? __________________ Custom Face by Kerrick TheIrish Lounge Desktop Ideas They say there's a heaven for those who will wait Some say it's better but I say it ain't I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints. The Sinners are much more fun Darling, only the good die young!

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luxray1993 (Tyler) Member Join Date: July 21st, 2009 Location: USA Male	Re: Arghh confused, help ? I am not in that situation, but what i can say is if your horny at a all boys school, you think your bi, cuz there arent girls there, i think its just hormones, and nothing to worry about. Michael's question makes sence. If you are worried about anything, to an extreme, you can always go to a boy and girsl school. __________________ If you call a quiz a quisacle what do you call a test?

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Dannyavfc Banned Join Date: May 27th, 2009 Location: Birmingham , Uk Male	Re: Arghh confused, help ? Thanks guys . I'm not worried to an extreme at all . I just wish the problem would go away aha

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Danny18 (Danny) Banned Join Date: November 28th, 2008 Location: Pennsylvania Age: 19 Male	Re: Arghh confused, help ? There is an adage, "A hard dick has no conscience" meaning sometimes, anything is acceptable lol but that doesn't mean your not possibly bi either. When your not horny, your probably not thinking sexual but when you are, well then you are.

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theaterman25 (David) Member Join Date: November 27th, 2006 Location: USA Age: 16 Male	Re: Arghh confused, help ? Dang, this is crazy. I go to a boys school and experience the same things as you. Honestly, it's just hormones, and you're only 15 (like me) and it's very hard to know your sexuality now. Just give it time. __________________ The Fame: Monster. Fame kills. I want your ugly, I want your disease I want your everything as long as it's free I want your love I want your psycho, your vertigo stick Want you in my rear window Baby your sick I want your love

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cjmax272 (Clay Jay or CJ) Banned Join Date: August 3rd, 2009 Location: Out East in michigan Age: 14 Male	Re: Arghh confused, help ? ok now if u feel tht way u might be bi thats good or just u dont see girls so thats what u resorted 2.

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thefly1001 (James) Member Join Date: July 20th, 2006 Location: the undersea realm Age: 16 Male	Re: Arghh confused, help ? im not but u will or would know tht ur bi or gay because everyone thinks theyre bi before they think theyre gay(or at least a good bit does) and it might be because ur stuck in a boys school and sub consciously thinking u would like someone any gender to do sexual things with and seeing how there no girls ur brain turn to male __________________ add me on my myspace Is a Proud Sponsor of being Gay( i dont have msn people aim)

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Bombs Go Boom (Mario) Member Join Date: January 23rd, 2009 Location: The Bay Age: 15 Male	Re: Arghh confused, help ? I no some people who go to an all boy school they don't have this problem but I think that you are thinking that only because your horny. When guys get an erection it's like all the blood leaves are head and goes to our dicks XD __________________ “A coward dies a thousand deaths... a soldier dies but once.” Tupac Shaku If greed is the root of all evil, does that mean that with out greed there is no evil? As long as man exist there will always be greed which is the root of evil. If there was no evil in the world would that make every one good? But how can you be good if there is no evil?

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