just need a little advice with this girl

[andrew lucas]

okay me and this girl have been seeing each other for a few months, and have liked each other since march? (we're not going out)

everythin was goin okay i guess, not great but steady until 1 day she told me i didnt show enough about how i care,.. so i started and all week i kept talking to her and talking to her and she just didnt really wanna talk to me anymore.. realising i gave up, last night she told me she liked another guy but only for a week, and i had told her i wanted to go out with her now (something im pretty sure she was waiting for) .. so she told me she wants me , not him and its my choice..so i acted pretty cool about everything didnt get mad or nothin..

then the next day (today) she started ignoring me again lmao.. so i just talked to her and everything seemed fine.. but for some reason at the beggining of today after our talk from last night i had so many more feeling for her then ever, but i cant help but just have a feeling she still has feelings for this other guy and not telling me.. i asked her and stuff. she told me she didnt so i beleive her.

but the problem is i dont know why but all my feelings for wanting to be with her, and wanting her are gone.. i still like her and everything but just thinking about, having to deal with stuff now made me lose all ambition towards it..

and btw im 15 going into grade 10.. if that matters anyways

so.. any tips of advice on what would be the smartest thing to do.. should i go for it, should i drop it what does it seem like to you >.> thanks!

[blayde5]

Well my opinion would be that you haven't been seeing enough "action" with her or like officially been going out. Ask her out because I think the romance has gone and going out somewhere might rekindle it.

If that doesn't do anything then I would give up :/

[andrew lucas]

haha ok thanks.. i was planning to anyways shes a sweet girl

[SecularHumanist]

Sometimes, relationships just don't work.

If you don't want to be with her anymore than don't kill yourself over it. You're in high school, you have plenty of time.

[nordin]

You deserve a better girl, don't waste your precious life to her. You are too young to fall in love and kill yourself. Let time heal the wounds of your heart.

[The Mysoginator]

Originally Posted by Freudian Slip

Sometimes, relationships just don't work.

Never has a truer sentiment been expressed.

My take on it is that she seems a little immature (perhaps too immature for a relationship?)

having to deal with stuff now made me lose all ambition towards it

You've got my sympathies here. I would hazard a guess and say that she's quite high maintenance. Just take comfort from the fact that you found out before you began dating her.