Would I be a virgin?

claire.marie · Jul-14-2009, 05:24 PM

So, when I was eleven, I played truth or dare with a girl friend of mine and it was basically all oral sex stuff. I've asked my friend, but she says I'm still a virgin... I just don't know, though. Am I a virgin? Oral sex is sex, but I don't know if it classifies as virginity-losing sex...

What do you guys think?

Zeus. · Jul-14-2009, 06:04 PM

The description of losing ones virginity is to have anal or vaginal sex. If you have had either one of those you have lost your virginity. If not, you are a virgin.

Now, I'm sure a lot of people will try and tell you that oral counts or sorta counts. No. it doesnt.

So you are a virgin

MeanMeanMachine · Jul-14-2009, 06:05 PM

Most people don't consider oral sex actual sex, but it really depends or what you believe in. If you do believe that oral sex is sex just the same as penetration is then no, you are not a virgin. In my opinion oral sex is not sex so to me you would still be considered a virgin. But it all comes down to what you believe in.

**Zelda** · Jul-14-2009, 07:35 PM

You have not had penetrative sex. You are a virgin.

ensign m · Jul-14-2009, 09:07 PM

You'd still be considered a virgin

phantasmagoria · Jul-14-2009, 11:43 PM

no penetration=no loss of virginity.

swanarichards · Jul-15-2009, 04:57 AM

Yes absolutely your virginity is intact to be lost when you finally meet that special girl and make love to her properly for the first time.

**Optimus Prime.** · Jul-15-2009, 06:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zelda

You have not had penetrative sex. You are a virgin.

Done and done.

wolfgang_boxer · Jul-15-2009, 06:41 AM

Dude, your'e still a virgin. Being 'non-virgin' is having had "intercourse".

mike8917 · Jul-15-2009, 08:36 AM

You are most deffinently a virgin

Sparticus · Jul-15-2009, 09:40 AM

Was a penis inserted into either your vagina or your anus? If you answered no to both insertion points, then you are a virgin.

bbb4ahs · Jul-15-2009, 11:15 AM

Well according to Bill Clinton oral sex is NOT sex...so idk.

claire.marie · Jul-15-2009, 02:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bbb4ahs

Well according to Bill Clinton oral sex is NOT sex...so idk.

lol Bill Clinton's an a**hole.

Anyway, thanks guys.

It's just been bothering me for years. I wasn't sure how girls lost virginity to each other because there's no penis... But I'm still a virgin!

Luke · Jul-15-2009, 02:59 PM

Technically I'd view your hymen breaking as the moment of you losing your virginity. (unless that happens not through sex)

So no penetration = virgin.

I wouldn't count experimentation as actual sex either, so yes, youre a virgin, its all good.

SecularHumanist · Jul-15-2009, 07:18 PM

I'm gonna have to be the ass and make a contrary statement here.

First, I think virginity is a very personal definition. Some people view only vaginal sex to constitute a loss of virginity. I have met people who have told me that as a gay man I will always be a virgin because I will never have sex with a woman. That's their view. Other people view virginity as penetrative sex. Still others, view oral sex as a loss of virginity.

In a study that was done a couple months back involving teens they asked how they defined virginity. Straight people mostly defined it as penetrative sex regardless of the whole used. Some straight people said only vaginal sex and some said oral sex did count. Gay men overwhelmingly said penetration was the line though some included oral. Lesbians rarely defined a loss of virginity as penetration and instead declared that oral sex constituted a loss of virginity.

What I'm trying to say is that you should decide your own definition of virginity. If you don't think that oral sex counts then it doesn't.

Jul-14-2009, 06:04 PM	#2
Zeus. (Austin) Member Join Date: April 10th, 2006 Location: L-Town Fools Age: 19 Male My Diaries: ( 1 2 3 )	Re: Would I be a virgin? The description of losing ones virginity is to have anal or vaginal sex. If you have had either one of those you have lost your virginity. If not, you are a virgin. Now, I'm sure a lot of people will try and tell you that oral counts or sorta counts. No. it doesnt. So you are a virgin __________________

Jul-14-2009, 06:05 PM	#3
MeanMeanMachine (Terrick) Member Join Date: March 31st, 2005 Location: Bensalem, Pennsylvania Age: 20 Male	Re: Would I be a virgin? Most people don't consider oral sex actual sex, but it really depends or what you believe in. If you do believe that oral sex is sex just the same as penetration is then no, you are not a virgin. In my opinion oral sex is not sex so to me you would still be considered a virgin. But it all comes down to what you believe in. __________________ Never Blend In Don't make grown man cry

Jul-14-2009, 07:35 PM	#4
Zelda Moderator Join Date: January 16th, 2006 Age: 19 Female My Diary: ( 1 )	Re: Would I be a virgin? You have not had penetrative sex. You are a virgin. __________________ P101 Moderator 2006- Former H&A Moderator Atheist, Humanitarian, Comedian, Volunteer

Jul-14-2009, 09:07 PM	#5
ensign m (Brian) Member Join Date: June 18th, 2009 Location: Florida Male	Re: Would I be a virgin? You'd still be considered a virgin __________________ 16...FL,USA...Straight

Jul-15-2009, 04:57 AM	#7
swanarichards Banned Join Date: June 27th, 2009	Re: Would I be a virgin? Yes absolutely your virginity is intact to be lost when you finally meet that special girl and make love to her properly for the first time.

Jul-15-2009, 06:41 AM	#9
wolfgang_boxer New Member Join Date: July 5th, 2009 Age: 14	Re: Would I be a virgin? Dude, your'e still a virgin. Being 'non-virgin' is having had "intercourse".

Jul-15-2009, 08:36 AM	#10
mike8917 (Michael) Member Join Date: July 16th, 2007 Location: Calgary Age: 20 Male	Re: Would I be a virgin? You are most deffinently a virgin __________________ 20/male/Canada/Gay I am worth $1,494,040 on humanforsale.com My IQ is 125 I'm smarter then 84.83% of people on am-i-dumb.com If you can take a cock you can do some work - Quote from a co-worker.

Jul-15-2009, 11:15 AM	#12
bbb4ahs (Trevor) Member Join Date: July 9th, 2009 Location: Ohio Age: 16 Male	Re: Would I be a virgin? Well according to Bill Clinton oral sex is NOT sex...so idk.

Jul-15-2009, 02:59 PM	#14
Luke Member Join Date: July 25th, 2004 Location: Liverpool [UK] Age: 19 Male My Diaries: ( 1 2 )	Re: Would I be a virgin? Technically I'd view your hymen breaking as the moment of you losing your virginity. (unless that happens not through sex) So no penetration = virgin. I wouldn't count experimentation as actual sex either, so yes, youre a virgin, its all good. __________________ Blah Blah Blah.

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