Aww Covey, you're damned good at advice but it is not your job to be giving advice if you don't want to do it. It's a great feeling to help people, and I think it's something everyone should do regularly; but don't let it override your own priorities. We all need to be happy, and what help are you when you're unhappy? Surely you have a friend, or friends, that will be there irrespective of how much help you give them?