Well my friends, get ready for a story of woe and no dareing do..
The other night I was out at our Universities disco/nightclub like thing. Things were going as normal and as expected. We had just got there after some predrinks at my friends house and after a few more drinks we decided to go and dance for abit.
This is where it gets abnormal; a hot girl hit on me!
after some deliberation she got closer to me (pretty darn close at this point!) and said "are you interested then?".
Ahh the next bit, my friends, is painful to remember..
This question of hers left me completely dumbfounded. I didn't know how to answer!
I slightly remember saying something like "I'm not, not interested".
Problem was I kinda stood there looking round for my friends, slightly ignoring this girl who was on me; because I had absolutely no idea what I should do!
I'm completely inexperienced to this kind of thing, I'm also slightly scared of affection and this put me right out of my depth.
After awhile this girl started asking questions like - "are you getting over someone or something?" and then said "It's okay if you aren't interested.."
more painful minutes passed until eventually a friend came and took her hand and led her away.
I guess my problems here were mainly of inexperience.
For example, I dont really know what she ment by "Are you interested then?" and didnt really understand what she was getting at.
I was also surprised that this girl was hot AND talking to ME!
I've had problems in my life with confidence and this girl fell into the category of what I think is 'she's out of my league'. My friends tell me I'm far from ugly but I have problems believeing them.
So I guess what I'm asking is:
1. What do you think she ment by "Are you interested then?"
2. What do you think I should have done?
There may have been something else I was trying to get at but my housemate just came back and put some annoying music on and my mind's been wiped.
P.S. Sorry for the wall of text and thanks for reading and any advice.
Screwed up proper eh? My stomach twists just thinking about it
No man points for me..





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