+ Reply to Thread
Results 1 to 5 of 5

Thread: I can't take it...

  1. #1
    Member Asmodias has a little shameless behaviour in the past
    Join Date
    July 28th, 2009
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default I can't take it...

    A while ago I felt depressed over not having a girlfriend, now I have one, she loves me just as much...
    I can't stand being away from her for more than an hour, it sets my heart alight, makes me feel sick and depressed, it's not really for the depression forum, because I love having her, but I need an answer, what could kill this pain?

    I guess this is what they mean by loving someone so much it hurts.

  2. #2
    Member sean will become famous soon enough sean's Avatar
    Join Date
    March 7th, 2009
    Location
    MA
    Age
    20
    Male
    My Diary
    ( 1 )
    My Mood
    Depressed

    Default Re: I can't take it...

    It's natural to feel this way, but you should tell yourself you both need social lives beyond each other. It hurts at first, yes, but it'll make your relationship with her stronger if you both still keep your friends. Being apart also makes the next time you see her that much better, doesn't it?
    GovCreeper

  3. #3
    Senior Moderator Zelda has a spectacular aura about Zelda has a spectacular aura about Zelda has a spectacular aura about Zelda's Avatar
    Join Date
    January 16th, 2006
    Location
    NY
    Age
    20
    Female
    My Mood
    Tired

    Default Re: I can't take it...

    You're a bit too attached. Your girlfriend should not be the center of your life. If not having a girlfriend makes you feel like your life is lacking so significantly, its no surprise that once you fill that void you will be overly clingy. Love is not defined by need. Its a tricky road you're on if you see her as something you need and that you can't be without.

    My only suggestion is to talk about this with her and try to resolve it. If you have no luck, seek counseling.
    P101 Mod 2006 -
    Former H&A Mod

    Quote Originally Posted by iwpoe View Post
    lol-roflcopter-I'm-so-cool-snark makes me a good arguer-

  4. #4
    Banned gucciiva is on a distinguished road
    Join Date
    October 4th, 2009
    Location
    EU
    Female
    My Mood
    none

    Default Re: I can't take it...

    I think it's too much. I would be annyoed if I were your girlfriend. I think it's not good to be too obsesed with just one thing in your life. I understand you love her but you must also know how to live on your own.

  5. #5
    Member dang is on a distinguished road
    Join Date
    October 1st, 2008
    Age
    16
    Male
    My Mood
    none

    Default Re: I can't take it...

    Your relationship's not gonna work out so well if you're too attached man. She has a life, like you, and sometimes that life requires you to be separate (and I can guarantee you, it'll be for more than an hour.) with her. I'm not saying you two aren't meant to be, but at the moment, you are too attached.
    15/Male/Straight.

+ Reply to Thread

Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

     

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts