Ok.... I have a question

[Heavenly Engage]

I'm sorry if this isn't puberty related or if it is in the wrong spot.

Let me start off. Me and my girlfriend want to have sex. Yes we are going to use a condom and we are both 15 and mentally ready for it. It is both of our first time having intercourse. She says she hasn't never really played with her self much and haven't never broke her hymen.

What kind of action is it going to take from me to brake it?

Will it hurt me or her???

I am kind of nervous about posting this because I don't know what people will think about me. Please don't say that if you don't know that then you shouldn't have sex.



We both thank you in advance

[Gemini VI.V.XCV]

Any type of penetration will break it.
I.E. playing with herself, you having intercourse, fingering, etc. It will hurt her, not you.

[gucciiva]

People will thnk you are too young for sex if you don't know that.
As they said before - any kind of penetration (with penis or with fingers) will broke ker hymen. And it will hurt her, not you. So be gentle. Really gentle, do it slow, lot of foreplay, lube etc.

[Casey]

Yes, there is a great possibility that it will hurt her. You'll need to do foreplay to lessen this pain and you'll need to listen to her and do what she says to make it easier on her.

[Kryptonite]

As Casey said it will probably hurt her, communication is they key talk to her, and also make sure you have foreplay before hand this will help her relax

[Heavenly Engage]

Ok. We did foreplay and we tried to communicate with each other but i couldn't get the tip of my finger in her. Then she wouldn't do it herself because she was scared it was going to hurt her.

What should we do now?? Keep trieing with the foreplay and the penetrate or what?

[gucciiva]

Was she wet enough? And relaxed?
For me it's just that if I'm aroused enough his finger just slides in a bit when he is fingering and caressing me there. Ok, im not a virgin anymore but still... If she is wet enough (if she's not use a lube) it shouldn't be so much of a problem just to put an inch of your finger inside her.

[Heavenly Engage]

Was she wet enough? And relaxed?
For me it's just that if I'm aroused enough his finger just slides in a bit when he is fingering and caressing me there. Ok, im not a virgin anymore but still... If she is wet enough (if she's not use a lube) it shouldn't be so much of a problem just to put an inch of your finger inside her.

Her and I have both agreed that we need to wait until tomorrow and try again. Then I will use more lube and maybe we can make magic.

I will update then.