SOMETHing new... i dont know how to fix this

[furrfootplayer]

well.. this is my second post but this is a little more serioue than my other one....
i am waht you call *sensitive to emotions* or empathy--- when ifeel somone through skin contact i can feel their emotions if i let myself go... but recently ive been with this girl who has a lot of guilt problems due to me being a virgin and she was not because of her one and only other ex... she went through hell for him and he left her... when im with her and she touches me i feel what she went through and it hurts like hell but when ishow my pain she gets worried and starts crying... i keep opening up to her so much... my grandma and my dad both have this trait but it feels weird talking anout it casue i just dont completely undersatand it....
empathy-Identification with and understanding of another's situation, feelings, and motives.
EX:
Identifying oneself completely with an object or person, sometimes even to the point of responding physically, as when, watching a baseball player swing at a pitch, one feels one's own muscles flex... all i have to is think about somethings somone went through or i see a news on tv and i feel it so powerfully im left on teh floor of my apartment for hours unable to move casue of teh pain.. i dont want her to see me like this casue it hurts her and when she touches me it is pushed back on me tenfold...

i dont know how to block her... i dont undersatnd how everything works but i can feel these things and i know its called a gods gift but to live with it evry day is so much agony... i cant even shake hands.. so many emotions.... please somone help me.. im not a good actor so i cant fake it for her.. i just want to be happy with her... but she wont let go of teh past and when she thinks baout it i feel it...and its very painful

[ElykElyk]

you seriously think this is a gift? I can read people to, its called understanding. When im with someone, i can normally tell if they are happy sad, and if something is hurting them. Its called intuition, and most people have it. As for your case, i thinking the touchy thing is a little over played. Do you seriously think you cant ever go see a shrink to get this fixed? this sounds more like a mental problem than a gift to me if it hurts you.
If you are seriously doubling over in pain, then you might want to reevaluate who you interact with, maybe 4chan is more the place for you, as they seem to use little emotion overthere, and most likely you wouldnt ever be hurt.