I need help..

[shakichris]

okay so I'm gay and every time i'm with my bf and he touches my hand i get a semi, and then when we get into our hot make out sessions completely hard and want to cum. anytime we get into anything else i cum really fast, how can i control myself?

[Optimus Prime.]

okay so I'm gay and every time i'm with my bf and he touches my hand i get a semi, and then when we get into our hot make out sessions completely hard and want to cum.

In all honesty, I do get rather turned on when I am with my girlfriend but at the same time I do not expect 'things' simply because I am in the mood. I would assume this is pretty common, especially during puberty with your hormones going crazy, and you are no doubt among a large crowd. As long as you dont let your hormones get the better of you (Doing something stupid or that may have rather large consequences) you should be fine.

anytime we get into anything else i cum really fast, how can i control myself?

Again, this issue a lot of teens (even adults) have to deal with. Some methods that may prolong the time until ejaculation are;

- Masturbate before you see your partner,
- Think of non-arousing things (Maths, Inanimate Objects, etc),
- When Masturbating, use the Stop and Go method, with practise it should increase the time it takes to climax,
- Spend more time on your partner,
- Spend list time on yourself when with your partner.

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GovTeen isn't the place to ask for sex tips. Just get to know your body and hopefully you'll learn through experience.