*GUYS* parinoid of how i look down there =[

[cheyenne]

the inner lips of my vagina hang below my outer lips.. and they are a darker color..
im used to hearing the term "meat curtains" and it really bothers me.. people
say that you get that when you sleep around but i had it before i started having sex..
im parinoid of letting my boyfriend go down on me because it.. what if he thinks its
ugly? or maybe he will think i have it cuz im a whore or something.. and guys talk..
so im scared if i let him go down on me and he thinks its gross he will go around telling
his guy friends about it..

are guys really that worried about how it looks down there..?

[J.D.]

you know, some guys have a fetish for that. Personally I know that there is ABSOLUTELY nothing you can do about it, it's what God gave you, as long as the parts work and it's clean that's all that matters

[cherry_boi]

doesn't bother me, i had an ex gf who was like that, most guys i kno don't care about that, lol some even prefer it.... and some don't

kinda like guys being cut or uncut

as long as ur bf isn't an asshole u have nothing to worry about

[Nyx]

Basically nobody cares. If you end up with a 1 in 10247 dude who isn't down with you, fuck 'em (metaphorically). They're not worth your time.

Also, think... if he decides you've been sleeping around... how many girls has he been with in order to know the supposed difference? Call him on that and he'll shut the fuck up.

[Genesis Knight]

kinda like guys being cut or uncut

as long as ur bf isn't an asshole u have nothing to worry about

i agree, it depends on the person and as long as your BF is a jerk he wont say its disgusting to you or his friends

[jimmyt]

I suppose anything could happen with your boy friend, I don’t know him, so I can not predict what he would do, but I can tell you personally and from what my friends think, a guy mostly cares about how well you satisfy him sexually and how clean you keep yourself.


Jimmy

[Optimus Prime.]

If I was with someone, as in a girlfriend (not someone I was just getting with), I love them for who they are, as opposed to what their vagina looks like. As JD said, assuming it works, you have nothing to worry about. Believe it or not, some guys are rather paranoid as to how their penis looks, even though they may be giving the same advice to others.

And yes, you were born like that so when people say you get 'meat curtains' by having sex with other people, they are just being idiots and have no idea.

[DevilDoodle]

If your boyfriend has that much of a problem with what your pussy looks like, then he's immature/an ass. If you let him pleasure you, he should happy that you are letting him touch or fuck your vagina. You love him, he loves you. You are expressing that love with sex. He should NOT see a problem with that.

[ilovebasketball]

First of all there is now way that having sex causes your inner lips to stick out more, so don't worry about a guy thinking that. Second, it's perfectly normal for the inner lips to stick out. Some girls' do and some don't. It's not freakish. It's very common. If a guy decides how he feels about you because your inner lips stick out more, he isn't worth you taking the time to be with him.

[Phobophile666]

honestly i would not care.

[zack.wheat]

My gf has really long inner labia that stick out but I don't mind and she was nervous about it. I think it makes it look interesting better then plain jane pussy. I like pulling on them and doing stuff like that.

And don't worry guys are really self conscience about their penis too.

[Xeroxed]

I actually think that's really, really hot, and would be very happy if I found out my girlfriends vagina was like that. Either way, its you and if he really cares about you will come to love it because its you.

[Zelda]

I think you should talk to your boyfriend about your insecurity.

[Tabula Rasa]

I don't think you should "talk" to your boyfriend about this. Honestly, I don't think he will care. If he's an asshole, and does care about things like this, then you probably wouldn't have been happy with him anyways. Just let things happen naturally.

I don't think you should "talk" about the insecurity with your boyfriend, because (sorry to say) most guys would be somewhat... "weirded out" by the conversation. If I was dating someone, and if (before we had sex) we had to have a serious talk about the aesthetics of her vagina, I would reconsider sex with them period. Not because I had a problem with her genitalia, but because that's a conversation I don't want to have in the beginning of a relationship.

[Zelda]

I don't think you should "talk" to your boyfriend about this. Honestly, I don't think he will care. If he's an asshole, and does care about things like this, then you probably wouldn't have been happy with him anyways. Just let things happen naturally.

I don't think you should "talk" about the insecurity with your boyfriend, because (sorry to say) most guys would be somewhat... "weirded out" by the conversation. If I was dating someone, and if (before we had sex) we had to have a serious talk about the aesthetics of her vagina, I would reconsider sex with them period. Not because I had a problem with her genitalia, but because that's a conversation I don't want to have in the beginning of a relationship.

If she has insecurities leading to her turning down oral sex, its bound to bring up questions. I'm not suggesting she bring it up in the beginning of a relationship, but if it is preventing her form moving forward when she is otherwise ready, I feel she should bring it up so she can have her worries eased and go ahead comfortably.