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    ok so me and my girlfriend have been in a fight for about 2 1/2 weeks.....and we have been together for like 3-4 months...and so i called her up to talk bout our fight and i said i was sorry and she did the same and we were talkin on the phone for like 30 min. and she told me to come over.....so i walked over (she lives like 2 streets away) and so i walked over....btw we are both vergins the only thing we have done is touchin and kissing....and so we sat on the couch and started watchin a movie and cuddeling....and she started touching me...(wont get into detials)...but 1 thing led to another...and next thing u koo im on top of her and i was kinda scared....so i asked her if she was ready and she said yea im ready..(i used lube and a condom) i went real slow and gentle....and i wasn't trying to force it or anything....and she told me to push more...and it went only 1/2 way in lik 6 times.and she was like moaning in pain...and it just caused to much pain for her.... that i had to stop....and i felt so bad for her...i didn't know what do do...so we just sat there and i held her and watched "christmas story"....and i mean i dont have like a super duper big dick or anythin...it's like 6 6 1/2

    1. is there anything i can do to help with the pain?

    2. am i still a vergin?

    3. was i doing something wrong that caused more pain?
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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    1. yes, you can finger her before hand.
    2. Because the definition of virgin(ity) depends on the person, it depends on how you define it.
    3. She was probably just really tight or you weren't doing it right. We weren't there, so we can't tell you. Communicate with her and you'll find out.
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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    No you're not a Vergin, or a Virgin.

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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    1. Foreplay is always nice - fingering her and making sure that she is physically ready as well as mentally ready is good to do.

    2. If you're asking my opinion, I'd say no - you penetrated the vagina and this included two willing participants, but that's my take.

    3. Maybe it was just an awkward position. I'm sure it wasn't anything you intentionally did, especially if you used lube and took it slow and gentle like you say - she's probably just tight.
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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    If your penis was inserted into her vagina then, no, you are not a virgin
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    We really need manuals on this kind of stuff. I mean, I really wish someone had told me wtf to do when I was first doing my girlfriend.
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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    There's the internet for fucks sake.

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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    Quote Originally Posted by xbmodder View Post
    We really need manuals on this kind of stuff. I mean, I really wish someone had told me wtf to do when I was first doing my girlfriend.
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    1. is there anything i can do to help with the pain? Not only is foreplay fun as hell, it can loosen her up a little. Make it easier on her. Talk to her about such things, ask what you can do better.

    2. am i still a vergin? No.

    3. was i doing something wrong that caused more pain? Ask her. Maybe you should go slower... Or use more lube. Finger her beforehand.

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    just talked to her and she says that she isn't hurtin anymore and that she wants to try it again..im so shocked that she does wanna do it again caz of how much pain it caused her the 1st time....so i think im going over there tonite....and this time i well finger her like u all said....am i spose to rub the clitorus or just make my fingures go in and out of her vergina?
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    Quote Originally Posted by seffy View Post
    just talked to her and she says that she isn't hurtin anymore and that she wants to try it again..im so shocked that she does wanna do it again caz of how much pain it caused her the 1st time....so i think im going over there tonite....and this time i well finger her like u all said....am i spose to rub the clitorus or just make my fingures go in and out of her vergina?
    You can rub her clitoris if you want, it's generally agreed that that increases pleasure. Or you can just loosen up her vagina by fingering her.

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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    1. is there anything i can do to help with the pain? More slow, gentle foreplay to get her in the mood and comfortable.

    2. am i still a vergin? Yes you are. Or at least I think so.

    3. was i doing something wrong that caused more pain? Are you sure you were putting it into the proper hole? May have been missing (putting it or trying to put it, into her urethra), which can be extremely painful.
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    I'd make sure you could fit at least two fingers into the vagina before penetrating.
    Nothing much to tell. I'm a gay 15 year old and I live in Connecticut. I'm random and quirky. I enjoy talking to people both about stupid, and intelligent things

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    Default Re: am i a vergin?

    1. is there anything i can do to help with the pain? more foreplay

    2. am i still a vergin? NOPE

    3. was i doing something wrong that caused more pain? make sure she is wet or use lube

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    ok so went over her house last nigt and she made me dinner and it was reli sweet and romantic.....and then we watched this reli wierd movie and so just like last time "things" happaned.....and i "loosened" her up like u guuys said....and than she gave me the most increable thing i've ever felt iin my intire life....a blow job....OMG there is nothing in the world that feels better than that.....lol anywayzzzzz so i broke out the lube and the condom and she put them on....and i was on bottom and she put herself on to my dick and went reeeeeeeaaaaaaal slow like i bairly could tell she was moving on me......but i waas like reli reli horny and i wanted to go fast but i let her do her thing and she was gradualy speeding up....and i came in like 4-5 min. it went so fast though.....HIP HIP HIP HIPH HIP HURAY!!!!! im not a vergin anymore.... wow it doesn't feel that much of a difference.....it feels like when your 14 and u turn 15 or somethingb u just feel like the some ole u...lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by seffy View Post
    ok so went over her house last nigt and she made me dinner and it was reli sweet and romantic.....and then we watched this reli wierd movie and so just like last time "things" happaned.....and i "loosened" her up like u guuys said....and than she gave me the most increable thing i've ever felt iin my intire life....a blow job....OMG there is nothing in the world that feels better than that.....lol anywayzzzzz so i broke out the lube and the condom and she put them on....and i was on bottom and she put herself on to my dick and went reeeeeeeaaaaaaal slow like i bairly could tell she was moving on me......but i waas like reli reli horny and i wanted to go fast but i let her do her thing and she was gradualy speeding up....and i came in like 4-5 min. it went so fast though.....HIP HIP HIP HIPH HIP HURAY!!!!! im not a vergin anymore.... wow it doesn't feel that much of a difference.....it feels like when your 14 and u turn 15 or somethingb u just feel like the some ole u...lol
    Uh, yeah, it isn't a big deal. Having sex means you're not a virgin. Woopdedoo.

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