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    why do people think that its bad to have sex before marriage? I dont get why its bad and i always see people with "purity rings" like the jonas brothers and i just dont understand why its soo important to wait until marriage!


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    It's based off of Judea-Christian beliefs most of the time.
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    It's a belief that you should save a "gift" that you were given at birth until you are with your mate for the rest of your life.

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    i really dont think its bad eather and no offence but i think the christion religon makes no sence.

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    I think it's a legacy from when there were no effective birth control methods so that an unwanted child could be born without a proper family to raise him. This would create an innocent victim.

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    I don't really believe in it, but I'm not gonna go around having sex with every girl I meet.
    A lot of things that Catholic Church teaches I don't believe in, and this is one of them.
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    Catholic Church dictating how people live their lives.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZenaGirl View Post
    I think it's a legacy from when there were no effective birth control methods so that an unwanted child could be born without a proper family to raise him. This would create an innocent victim.
    That's what I thought, catholic church started it as a teaching to stop the birth of such children and nowadays the church just has issues changing old habits. So it has a legitimate basis, not complete bollocks made by the pope to control peoples lives
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    I didnt have sex yet but if i was to have sex he would have to be wearing a condom lol.

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    im not religious, but i don't plan on having sex until i'm married. for me personally sex is like the absolute closest relationship you can have with another person, its such a great bond and i only want to share that with one person in my life. its a personal choice and i have NOTHING against sex before marriage, i really don't care what other people do.
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    Religion.


    But I cant imagine not seeing if we're good physically before being tied to them for the rest of my life.

    One needs passion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZenaGirl View Post
    I think it's a legacy from when there were no effective birth control methods so that an unwanted child could be born without a proper family to raise him. This would create an innocent victim.
    Very well said. That's what I always thought too... It's really never seemed like that big of a deal to me though. I wouldn't go around having sex like a bunny, but I've never seen anything wrong with having sex before marriage... The things people do for religion...
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    Because the Bible says it is, and let's not forget that the Bible is always right. Especially about that flat earth thing.

    But seriously, I see nothing wrong with sex before marriage. So many people get married for non-love-related reasons, and there's so much of a divorce rate, that there's no logical reason to wait. If anything, it makes more sense to have sex while in a loving relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by flojoa9 View Post
    why do people think that its bad to have sex before marriage? I dont get why its bad and i always see people with "purity rings" like the jonas brothers and i just dont understand why its soo important to wait until marriage!

    Personally, I am saving my virginity till I get married to a woman. It's your choice to save it, man or woman. In my opinion it is better to save it.
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