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    Default Can you get over a fetish?


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    and i just realized i have no idea how to start. oh well, ill just start and hope it makes sense, haha.

    so about 2 years ago my dad got me a digital camera for my birthday. for some reason one night i was playing with the movie setting (like where you can set it to shoot video) and i got the urge to videotape myself getting off. i wasnt showing it to anybody, i just wondered what i looked like when i was doing it i guess. the thing that surprised me was how turned on i got from it and how much i liked doing it. it also turned me on REALLY bad when i watched it. so i kept doing it, and ended up buying a camcorder, and basically started taking movies and pictures every time i got off. and the problem is i feel like i cant get off without it now, i just dont get that turned on if the camera isnt on or if im not watching myself. i also had a bunch of pictures taken of me by a friend, which werent too explicit but were definitely nude.

    i dont want to show them to anybody or be a porn star or anything in case your wondering! anybody who knew me would be surprized by this, im not a slut, ive never even had sex. and NO i will not send any of this to anybody, so dont send me emails asking for pics or ill report you to mods. i just want help figuring this out.

    So im wondering, i guess, if its possible to get over a fetish and stop getting turned on by it. I really want to end this because its totally illegal and i really dont want anything to get found. i know its against the law and i think i can get in trouble for it even though its all of me. i dont think i can resist it, i just get this urge to do it...i dont want to give up my camera and stuff, because i use it for other stuff and i think id probably just go find another one if i got rid of it. i know its totally freaky and i want to stop but i just feel like its bigger than me. i dunno. has anybody tried to get away from a fetish before or something?


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    Default Re: Can you get over a fetish?

    It's not illegal.

    I suppose. Never had a fetish to get over.

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    Default Re: Can you get over a fetish?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sparticus View Post
    It's not illegal.

    I suppose. Never had a fetish to get over.
    why isnt it illegal? im not 18....

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    Default Re: Can you get over a fetish?

    You may not be 18, but that does not mean that it's illegal. It's illegal if you're forced into doing it by another or it's sold/distributed.

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    Default Re: Can you get over a fetish?

    so its not illegal to have it if you took it of yourself, only if somebody else took it and sold it?

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    Default Re: Can you get over a fetish?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sherpani View Post
    so its not illegal to have it if you took it of yourself, only if somebody else took it and sold it?
    Correct.

    And obviously don't give it to anybody over 18. Then they'd get in trouble for child porn.


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    Ok, so then is there any reason i should be worried about getting in trouble for it or breaking the law? it really is totally legal for me to do this?

    Im also worried about the morals of it...its kind of freaky and ive done some freaky stuff

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    Default Re: Can you get over a fetish?

    It all depends on what your morals are

    Personally, whatever someone wants to do in their own bedroom, they can go for it.

    And legally, as long as it's just for you, there's nothing wrong with it.


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    well i guess that makes me feel a little better....

    i guess the thing that bothers me is its so not like me if that makes any sense. i dont do anything else thats bad, i dont drink or smoke or anything, i dont dress like a slut, i get good grades, and i feel like this is some totally freakish thing that only some real slut would do...but i like it so much!!!!!!!

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    And even then, it's not bad.

    It's just your own way of making yourself feel good. And there's nothing wrong with that.


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    Default Re: Can you get over a fetish?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sherpani View Post
    well i guess that makes me feel a little better....

    i guess the thing that bothers me is its so not like me if that makes any sense. i dont do anything else thats bad, i dont drink or smoke or anything, i dont dress like a slut, i get good grades, and i feel like this is some totally freakish thing that only some real slut would do...but i like it so much!!!!!!!
    You're not a slut at all. You're not doing anything wrong at all, either. I guess this is kind of personal exhibitionism. It's better than putting yourself out there for creeps to see. Even if you were, though (ignoring the way-under-18 part), it doesn't make you a bad person. People are sexual. Some have kinks. One of those is liking the idea of being watched, admired, whatever. If you're careful, it's harmless, even fun.

    It is a bit concerning if it's the only way you can please yourself. You might try to de-habituate to that. But unless it's really messing up your sex life (and at 14 you probably shouldn't have much of a sex life beyond masturbation), it's totally harmless.
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