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    Question How to pop her cherry


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    OK, this question may sound stupid.. but I haven't had sex before, so I have no idea about this stuff. That's why I'm asking. I'm 20 and both me and my gf are virgins (don't laugh).

    I just want to know how to do it when I break her hymen. I mean.. does it hurt her a lot? Should I just shove it in there quickly, or should I do it slowly?? If it DOES hurt her a lot, would it affect her from actually enjoying us having sex?

    I know that the pain depends on the hymen and all.. but if she has a normal one - neither too elastic nor too rigid, how should I break it?

    Any advice would be nice.

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    Default Re: How to pop her cherry

    The chances are her hymen is already broken. It can break through every day activities, so yeh, she's got 20 years worth of times it could break - it may already have broken, and it'll sting a bit (if it hasn't), I gather anywho, cos it's a piece of skin being broken :l

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    Question Re: How to pop her cherry

    thanks for replying..

    IF it is still not broken, how do I break it?

    "make it quick" or "do it gently" ? - That's what I want to know

    If I shove it quickly, I am worried about hurting her and ruining our sexual experience.

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    Be gentle. It is possible to make small tears on the inside of the vaginal wall and stuff like that, so I'd say go slow to reduce your chances (and so that she does't feel like you're stabbing her). Chances are that it'll hurt for her the first time around (even if her hymen is broken, it takes time for a vagina to get used to being used in a new way), but for me the pain subsided enough for it to still be pleasurable. So no, it won't ruin the sex, but yes, it does hurt.

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    Smile Thanks a lot!

    So, I'd have to do it gently. Thanks a lot!

    I needed to hear from someone who has already had sex. Thanks for your advice.

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    Default Re: How to pop her cherry

    Don't concentrate on the hymen. It should not be the main concern about your first time.

    Sex often hurts for a girl the first time (or first few times) regardless of whether her hymen is still intact or not. It is not the act of breaking the hymen that causes most pain, but the new sensation os being penetrated, being nervous and clenching the vaginal muscles muscles, not enough lubrication, being penetrated too deeply, going too fast, etc.

    DO NOT "just shove it in there quickly" - that's not going to be pleasurable for her. Sex is about communicating and making sure both partners needs are met. Make sure you are both relaxed and there is enough lubrication. Go slowly. Ask if it hurts, if it does, stop moving until she gets used to the sensation before you start again.

    As I said, sex often hurts for women the first time regardless of whether there is a hymen there or not. What will determine whether or not she "enjoys sex" as a whole or is eager to try again is not the pain, but how you handle it on an emotional level.
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    hey.. thanks for the advice. So, its like this - having sex is going to hurt her a bit for the first few times whether her hymen is broken or not. And I need to communicate properly and I need to be gentle. Now I got it.

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    the hymen is almost definately broken, but that doesnt mean its not going to hurt, make sure there id a lot of communication
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheGroundling View Post
    the hymen is almost definately broken, but that doesnt mean its not going to hurt, make sure there id a lot of communication
    yeah... communication... of course.. thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by senthil View Post
    Hi

    OK, this question may sound stupid.. but I haven't had sex before, so I have no idea about this stuff. That's why I'm asking. I'm 20 and both me and my gf are virgins (don't laugh).

    I just want to know how to do it when I break her hymen. I mean.. does it hurt her a lot? Should I just shove it in there quickly, or should I do it slowly?? If it DOES hurt her a lot, would it affect her from actually enjoying us having sex?

    I know that the pain depends on the hymen and all.. but if she has a normal one - neither too elastic nor too rigid, how should I break it?

    Any advice would be nice.

    Thanks..
    First off I don't see why anyone would laugh at you for being a virgin, that is very admirable. And it's good your gf is as well.

    Some girls say it hurts others don't feel a thing. Most likely her hymen may already be broken, it is very thin and something as simple as riding a bike can break it. For the first time just go really slow and talk to her as you go,
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    Quote Originally Posted by yourweird View Post
    First off I don't see why anyone would laugh at you for being a virgin, that is very admirable. And it's good your gf is as well.
    thanks. I needed to hear something like that. thanks a lot.

    and yeah.. I will be gentle.

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    oh lordy listening to all these discripitions of sex sounds exteremly painful. oi!
    be gentle i guess.
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    communication! it may not still be in tact. It can be broken easily.

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    all these talks abt hymen breaking is making me sickkk..











    { i wonder wn i willl do it......... : ( }

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    Default Re: How to pop her cherry

    Quote Originally Posted by cromanian View Post
    all these talks abt hymen breaking is making me sickkk..











    { i wonder wn i willl do it......... : ( }

    maybe u need to know that all women have there hymen broken sometime in there life, and really it isnt a big of a deal just dont be to fast and hard or it will hurt even after intcorce.

    oh and about when u will do it... well theres no rush and if the hymen breaking makes u sick then maybe u shouldnt have sex any time soon

    ps: y would we laugh about u beign a virgin not everyone has sex at the same age and time.
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