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    im 14 and i dont know how to give a blow job or a hand job i would like to know how cause my b/f wants one and i keep on refusing cause i dont know how if you could tell me that would be such a help thanx <33


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    handjob: you sorta try and shake it like a ketchup bottle
    blowjob: you sorta suck and lick it like a lollipop i guess..

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    Quote Originally Posted by specialED View Post
    you can get STDs though so dont touch! if you bite you will get no disease tho!
    always protect yourself

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    Five Fellatio Tips
    Watch the teeth!

    The biggest mistake that novice fellatrixes make is scraping the penis with their teeth. Though some men may like this mix of pain and pleasure, most will not. Fact is, it's difficult to relax and enjoy the sensations if you're always worrying about your dick being bitten off during a blowjob.
    Tucking your teeth under your lips is one way to make sure you avoid this gotcha. Otherwise, just make sure to open wide and be careful. Your teeth and his skin just weren't meant to be together.
    <hr> Act like you like it

    It may seem simple, but if you act like you enjoy giving head, it will increase his pleasure greatly. Nothing's worse that getting a blow job from a reluctant or unwilling partner. Of course, the best way to do this is to swallow at the end, but even if you can't bring yourself to do that, a little enthusiasm will go a long way.

    Some ways to show you like it include: initiating oral sex, without him asking for it or expecting reciprocation; making noises during the act (try humming....there's a reason they call it a "hummer"); and playing with yourself as things get hot.
    <hr> Be firm

    A penis isn't a popsicle. Licking at first (especially behind the head) can be tantalizing and exciting, but when it's time to get down to business, take him firmly in your mouth and bob your head up and down.

    <hr> Use your hands

    Your hands are free, so use them! Complement the sucking up top with a hand job lower down the shaft, lubed up with your saliva of course. Gently play with his balls. And, if you're an adventuresome couple, even try putting a finger or two up his ass. However, be careful not to put them anywhere near the penis after that. A pair of latex gloves and water-based lube will help with hygiene.

    Your hands are also a good way to speed up his coming if you're not looking for a marathon session. A hand job/blow job combo should result in a quick, intense orgasm.
    <hr> Making it safe

    There is risk in fellatio: you can easily pass diseases like herpes and even AIDS can be transmitted, especially if he ejaculates in your mouth. If you choose to play it safe with a condom, be sure to get one that is lubricant-free. Then, place a generous amount of water-based lube inside the condom. This will increase his pleasure greatly.





























    How to Give the Best Hand Job
    Once in a while a guy just needs to relax, be pampered, and get off while give his own hands a rest. Self-Pleasuring is always fun, but having a different set of hands on your cock is always more stimulating than touching yourself, and your man is sure to savor the extra attention. Giving a good hand job is an art, and you'll learn your own tricks and techniques with practice, but here are some tips to get you started stroking.
    Get Him Greasy
    The first thing to consider before giving a hand job is the type of lubrication you'll be using. Will it be petroleum-based or water-based, or do you just want to use saliva? All three have their good points and provide slightly different sensations. One thing to remember is that men in general are not turned on by fruity or floral scented lubes or lotions. These things are designed to please women and are tolerated by men who want their women to be happy. Men are more aroused by natural, earthy scents. Petroleum based lube, like Vaseline, provides a smooth, silky texture good for long slow stroking. Its thick, creamy consistency works as an insulator that locks in heat. The more you stroke, the warmer it gets. This can be especially good on cold winter nights.
    Water-based lubes like KY Jelly and Astroglide are slick and designed to simulate the body's natural lubrication (also known as pre-cum). These feel great and are the most commonly used as they adapt well to fast or slow stroking. Most hand jobs start slow and speed up as they go along. The only problem with water-based lubes is that they can dry out quickly. It's always best to start out with a generous amount and add more when needed. This of course will all depend on how long it takes for the guy to blow his load.
    Perhaps it's just the nature of the beast, but a lot of us are turned on by the warm slick feeling of spit. Maybe we enjoy the intimacy of our partner using their own fluids as lube. Or maybe we're just crude. But if you're the type of person who is good at working up a mouth full of saliva, this can be the sexiest way to go.
    Lay Him Back
    When you're ready to begin, have the guy lay back and relax. Since you will be doing all of the work, he can put his hands up behind his head, close his eyes, and just enjoy the sensations. Position yourself between his legs so that you can comfortably reach his cock and balls, but not so close that you are pressed up against him. You want to give yourself enough room to work. Place a generous amount of lube in one hand. Using the other hand, hold his dick out so that it is pointing straight up at the ceiling. Bring the hand full of lube down on the head of his cock and slowly draw it down the length of his shaft. As you do this, use the other hand to massage excess lube onto his balls. Remember that giving a good hand job really requires the use of both hands and plenty of lube.
    As your hand reaches the base of his shaft, reverse the motion and draw it slowly back up. When you reach the top, tighten your grip around the head and give it a little squeeze before starting your hand back down. Continue to repeat this motion for several strokes while also gently pulling and rubbing his balls with the other hand. Once you begin, try to never let your hand come completely off his dick. Every time you break your rhythm, you also break the mood and set back his climax.
    Hand Over Hand Stroking
    Continue this slow, even stroking until he begins softly moaning or making comments like, "Mmmm. That feels good." Then you'll know it's time to move on to phase two and heat things up. On the downward stroke, as your hand reaches the base of his shaft, start your other hand at the top. As the second hand goes down, remove the first and start it back at the top. Continue this hand over hand downstroke five or ten times then reverse it pulling your hands from bottom to top five or ten times. Repeat this procedure back and forth until his balls pull up tightly to his body and his breathing becomes heavy.
    Finish Him Off
    Now it's time to return to the single-hand, up-and-down stroking you started with. This time use a firmer grip and speed your stroke up to a rapid jacking motion. Gently but firmly, work the fingers of your other hand around his scrotum and pull his balls back down away from his body. By this point his body will begin to buck uncontrollably and streams of semen will shoot in the air. Once he stops shaking and catches his breath, he will definitely thank you for a job well done.
    Tips
    • Use plenty of lube, and keep pouring it on as the hand job progresses. Don't forget to use his pre-cum as extra lubrication.
    • Massage his balls with one hand as you stroke his dick with the other.
    • Keep a steady, even rhythm and accelerate as he becomes more excited.
    • Keep at least one hand on his cock, stroking, at all times.
    • Squeeze gently around the head of his cock and the base of his penis for extra stimulation.
    • Use a firm grip and long, full strokes, unless he specifically prefers a lighter touch.
    • When he gets close to climax, tug gently on his balls.
    • If you're adventurous, slip a lubed finger up his ass and nudge his prostate.


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    They're both one of those things that you just kinda have to figure out on your own. You can't really describe how to do them. And chances are, neither will be perfect the first few times you do them. But here's some tips:

    Handjob: Use lube. Fast is good. Make a ring with your index finger & thumb (or middle finger and thumb) and put it around his penis. Then move your hand up and down.

    Blowjob: Basically, you move your head backwards and forwards on his penis. The underside towards the head is sensitive, so you might want to focus a little on that. Try to fit as much in as you can, but not so much that it'll make you gag. If you can't fit too much in, focus on the head. You might want to play with his balls also. And watch out for the teeth -- supposedly it hurts a lot.

    But anyway, communication is key -- ask your boyfriend what he does & doesn't like. And you might want him to show/teach you what he likes best.
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    As I always advice... Go watch porn.... Or just get a banana.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blue_angel20 View Post
    im 14 and i dont know how to give a blow job or a hand job i would like to know how cause my b/f wants one and i keep on refusing cause i dont know how if you could tell me that would be such a help thanx <33
    wow youre only 14, how old is your b/f

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    speaking from experience, that about sums it up, but what feels the best is layin away from each other and the g/f using your dick (stroking) as you would in a reclined position. It will also increase your chances of doing it more than once. I did it 6 times fro a record but 3 times is average. And make sure that your intimate enough with each other befor eyou ask for one or the other. Also ask if the male wants you to lick it up. That makes him want to continue...at least thats what it made me want. Although the g/f might not want to so dont push it.

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    Practice makes perfect?
    An it harm none, do as thou wiltDo what you will, so long as it harms noneAn it harm none, do what thou willThat it harm none, do as thou wiltEight words the Wiccan Rede fulfill, / An it harm none do what ye will.

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