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    this girl at school told me she wants to give me a blow job, simply because she thinks i am cute and she said she has never done it before

    is there a risk i could get hiv or something dangerous from her if i let her even though she said she never done it before


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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    You can contract STDs through oral sex. If she's never done anything with anyone before (and you can believe her when she says it) then chances are, she doesn't have an STD.

    If I were you, I wouldn't do anything with her. I mean, the only reason she wants to do it is because she's never done it before and she wants the "experience." Probably all of her friends have done it already, and she hasn't, so really she just wants to use you so she can compete with them.

    Besides, you're only 13..why not wait a while? Or at least wait until you like the girl and are dating her?
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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    I agree with the above poster. You basically have two choices:
    a) You can be safe (aka not get a blowjob from her and not have the chance of getting a STI.)
    b) You can take the risk (aka get a blowjob from her and possibly get a STI.)
    And really, isn't it kind of weird that she wants to give you one just because she "thinks you are cute." I mean, I think guys are cute all the time and I don't give them blowjobs, I haven't even given my boyfriend, who I like very much, a blowjob. It just seems weird that she'd want her first blowjob to be with a guy she isn't even going out with...

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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    yeah, I'd definitely worry about std from a girl who wants to blow you "just cause your cute"

    Just imagine how many others "cute" boys she's known

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    Get to know her first and make her get an STD test with you in the room otherwise she could lie. If she doesn't agree with getting a test AND having you in the room then tell her that she can't give you oral sex until she does both those things.
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    Somehow I doubt she'd go through all that trouble just to give a guy who is "cute" a blowjob.
    It might just be a smarter idea to forget about it, I mean you are only 13 give it some time and do that stuff when you are older...

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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    Unless you both have open sores, the chances of getting HIV ae quite low. Howeve, there are chances of getting a number of other lovely STDs, from herpes to genital warts. Wear a condom.

    I echo the concerns of others as to her wanting to have oral sex with you just because you are "cute."
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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    Wear a condom if you want to do it.

    I don't care what she tells you, you don't randomly give bj's to 'cute' guys because you've never done it before. Whatever happened to morals and self respect.
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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    Quote Originally Posted by P[a]radiseFound
    Wear a condom if you want to do it.

    I don't care what she tells you, you don't randomly give bj's to 'cute' guys because you've never done it before. Whatever happened to morals and self respect.
    I honestly don't understand why everyone is in such a rush to get some sexual experience before they are even in a proper relationship now. It really makes no sense to me because there are so many potential consequences.

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    That's really tacky. If you have any ounce of common sense and morality you would steer clear of her. She sounds like bad news. And there must be more to her wanting to blow you then her thinking you were cute. I wouldn't be surprised if she really was just trying to compete with her friends. Just wait until you have a real relationship with someone or better yet until you're married.

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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    I agree with ppl saying that you're too young and that it is a risk, especially doing it casually (not in a relationship)...

    If you want my.. biased advice.. go ahead, you take risks all the time, screw morals, have fun...
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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    do it...

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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    Why would you want to? Just some random girl from school thinks you're cute, and wants to suck your dick... and you'd let her if it was safe?

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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    sit back and enjoy it.


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    Default Re: this girl wants to give me a bj, but

    Quote Originally Posted by yolswindow
    sit back and enjoy it.
    i decided not to, my hand is good for me
    i dont want to risk disease

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