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    So my boyfriend used to be addicted to porn...i know that sounds weird, but he was. He went to a counselor and he told me that he hadnt looked at it for monthes. He had this problem before he and i got together. He told me how hard it was to get over it, but htat he felt like a better stronger person now, and he was glad that he didnt look at it.
    But just the other day i caught him looking at it. Now, i dont really care that he looks at it, it bothers me a bit, but whatever. But i HATE that he lied to me. I have dated so many liars and im sick of them!!! I love my boyfriend, but ugh!!!! Now i dont know what to do. He doesnt know that i saw him doing this, so now im just all confused and upset and ugh!!!

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    Default Re: Soo upset!!

    if you are going to have a Bf that lies to you , you better get or find a new one latter in your comment he will chit on you so you better watch out

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    Maybe you confront him about his lying and decietful behaviour? It's unfair on you that he's obviously getting away with it. Oh and if he likes to look at pornography so much then he should be better of without someone as caring as you that worries so much about him. =/.
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    Default Re: Soo upset!!

    Since this is a relationship question rather than a puberty question, I'm going to move it from Girls Puberty to Love & Dating >>

    Seeing as you haven't discussed this with him yet, I don't think that you can immediately jump to the conclusion that he's lied to you. How long ago was it that he told you that he had gotten over this and felt stronger? It could be, that at the time, he truly had stopped looking at porn and truly did feel stronger. Bring up the subject again, see what he says, tell him you saw him, see what he says. Trust works both ways. If you expect him to be honest with you, you need to be honest with him as well.
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    like bring it up in convo, n like asked when he last looked at it, n see what he says, because it may just be a one off.
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    you just need to confront him on his behaviour of lying and whatever and say that you would appreciate that he would be truthful. you must not crash down on him like your his mother rather just be nice, and if hes a good boyfriend he should understand where you're coming from.
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    Im going to try bringing it up...its just i kept telling him how much i admired him because i had gotten over a sort of addiction too and im still struggling with it and he said that if he could do then i could do it and i put so much faith into him...idk, i just kind of feel betrayed. But im going to bring it up and see what he says.

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