Personally, I'm not too bothered about the actual ejaculation. It's afterwards that I don't like. At risk of being too graphic, what goes in must come out, and after romantic sex it's not too attractive to stand there trying to get rid of it before it goes everywhere.
for all you girls who have replied that you enjoy a guy ejaculating in your vagina.....what is it about it that you like or that turns you on? is it something that you fantasize about when you are masturbating?