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    Default How to ask a girl to do stuff


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    I have never had any sexual encounters with a girl, so i was wondering how you would ask a girl, or if you are a girl, how would you want to be asked to do something like a hand job or blowjob. I know that there isn't just one way or they might just happen without conversation. but if i knew a girl and i were both ready, how would i go around getting them to do something with me?


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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    You'll know when the time is right. If you still feel to awkward about it, or she does, its not the right time to be seeking it. You could try asking someone, but most girls certainly would not do it at the drop of a hat. You have to work for it.

    If you were both ready, it would be something natural.



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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    It not generally something that you ask a girl to do. A couple may discuss moving to the next level physically, but generally it just happens.
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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    it has to be something you are both coming to a concencus about not something that you should be asking for
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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    just talk to her about it ask her if she has ever done anything like that...

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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    really you should feel it when the time is right. If I were a girl I wouldn't want to be told, "give me a blowjob bitch!" just be cool about it. if she says no then she says no. dont try to force her into anything she doesn't want to get into
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    You have to set a flirty tone right from the beginning. If what's set is a neutral, almost platonic mood, then no matter how well you get to know her, it will ALWAYS be awkward when all of a sudden you "change." Then it's all about escalating, getting touchy (it doesn't even have to be sexual, it can just be hand holding) and she'll let you know how far she wants it to go each time. And you have to be vocal, and tell her it's okay for her to stop you anytime she wants. Remember the less awkward, the better for both of you. Have fun.

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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    Most girls are not going to do anything unless you are both in a relationship and ready to do something like that. If you are both ready then you should be able to have that relationship to the next step.

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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    It just happens for the most part...stuff happens in stages (holding hands, kissing, petting, blah blah blah). The relationship will either go at its own pace naturally or you may choose to talk about going faster or slower. In any event, as you move forward, each of you will test the waters by doing something new...and the other person will either respond with some resistance (in which case you need to slow down) or respond with pleasure and may reciprocate in a similar manner (in which case continue at that level for a while and then test the waters at the next level).

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    I would make sure your relationship is strong. Make sure you've known each other for quite a bit of time so a blowjob and/or handjob won't mess up your relationship. I think it would be the best time when you both were in "the mood", if you know what I mean. I would suggest starting a conversation and slowly getting into the question for her to give you a bj or hj.
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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    If you are not on a relationship then the chances are very low, though if you are in a relationship then if the both of you feel comfortable about it then you can make your move. Though you as has been said, you will know when to do something so it's often not forced or awkward, though asking her to do something may make it a little awkward.

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    I was in your same sitiation. so i really dont know how we got on the conversation of bjs and stuff but we did. and we text about it for a little while. then i asked her if she had ever given one and she said yea. so i said hm. or something like that. then i asked if she would LIKE to give me one. and she said yea. ive kinda wanted to for a while and see you.

    so idk. just bring it up and chat about it for a minute. never know what can happen

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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    Yeah.
    I did the same thing as Zach and he is completely correct.
    Just bring it up in a casual manner.
    And be like sooo... have you ever given anyone a BJ or HJ
    And then just be like mmmmmmmmmmmmm I see.
    She should understand what you are putting out there and respond accordingly.

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    Default Re: How to ask a girl to do stuff

    You don't really ask a girl for a handjob. Are you in a relationship with a girl? Start by talking about sex, and sexual things. See how she feels about it. Usually things like that just happen naturally. It's not something you plan.

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