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    Question I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?


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    When i was young like 2 or 3 me and my friends used to pull down our pants and play with each others butts. I also would play with girl toys and i liked barbies but my parents said that guys don't play with that. I had lots of friends who were girls. In second grade there were some guys that I felt i had to be friends with and i would always sit really close to them. And when they would talk to other guys i got jealous and mad and i thought they weren't my 'friend' anymore. In third grade i really cared about what i wore. There were these jeans that i wanted and i got them. Then when they got to small my mom said i needed new jeans and i said i liked them really tight like this. Also in third grade one of my friends i felt like there was something more than friendship between us but i didn't understand it. I always wanted to be close to him and touch him. At that same time in third grade i started liking girls. I was obsessed with them. Also around this time there were some guys that i had feelings for but i didn't understand it. For some reason i was always attracted to guys pants falling down(not like saggin or like guys with there pants around there knees but like when your pants just slide down a little bit or you can see there boxers). In fourth grade nothing new happened except for the stuff that was already happening but there were a few girls that i liked. In 5th grade nothing new except there was this one girl that i really really liked. I liked her personality but i thought she was a little cute too. Now we are just best friends. But anyways in the summer of 5th grade or just 6th grade was when i started puberty. I was a very early bloomer because i started puberty when i was 11. that year in 6th grade i switched swim teams(i forgot to mention i love swimming) and there was this one guy that i thought was really cute. Whenever he brushed up against me or was sitting close to me i would get a *****. I really really like him. There was another guy that i liked at the same time who was in my class. One night me and him and other people had a sleepover. in the middle of the night we were laying next to each other and of course i had a b***r. I didn't bring my pillow so i used his. Then we got so closed that we were literally almost on top of each other. Skipping to present day which i am now in 7th grade. I think both boys and girls are cute. I am not attracted to porn though. Straight porn nor gay porn arouses me. So can someone please tell me if i am gay, straight, or bi? Please!?!


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    Default Re: I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?

    Well we can't really tell you what you are only you know what you are. And I think you already know what you are but you came here to get affirmation because you're still young and insecure

    also you're allowed to say boner. It;s okay

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    Default Re: I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?

    You sound bi to me.
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    Default Re: I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?

    To be completely honest, nothing in your early childhood sounds unusual or "gay". You were 2. Butts are fun. Up until about your 6th grade story, none of your childhood "events" seem alarming or suspicious.

    Now you're in 7th grade. It's extremely common for kids your age, and older, to feel insecure about or unsure of their sexuality. You're at a stage in your life where everything gives you a boner. It doesn't mean that you're attracted to them, per se.

    Sure, you might be bi. You might be gay. You also very well could be straight. At this point in time, it seems too soon to tell. Some kids know that they're gay at a very early age. Others don't finally realize it until they're much older and all the way through puberty.

    So don't rush finding an answer. Give yourself the time you need to figure out whether or not you might be gay/bi. Nobody on here will be able to tell you more than you'll be able to tell yourself.

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    Default Re: I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?

    You're gay in my opinion. Or bi, or just a really fem straight guy.
    Fuckin Eh.

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    Default Re: I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?

    I think you are alil young to be definate, your probally in the awkward experimenting stage, just feel arround and try out new things and see how you like it.
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    Default Re: I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?

    Reading your post you seem to know the thing in life you like and that you don't, the one thing you don't seem to know is what label to put on yourself. Thats great, cos guess what buddy, you don't have to... Time and experience will help you determine who you like, and it doesn't matter what they are, as long as you and they are content.
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    Default Re: I don't know if I'm gay, bi, or straight. Please Read all of this!?

    Although you're getting bogged down in stereotypes (just because you care about how you look, or how you dress, or butts, etc., doesn't make you gay), I think you're gay just from reading that post. Now, to be fair, you're only in 7th grade, so you still have plenty of time to sort stuff out. Reading this post really makes me think gay, however.

    Would you be alright with yourself if you were gay? Are you religious, or do you have moral conflicts against being gay? These are all questions which could influence your way of thinking.
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