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    cousin tried to play with me in sleep


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    it happened about a week ago. I was sleeping in my cousins house. I was so soundly then i opened my eyes. I saw my cousin(he's a boy) playing with my dick! and wanted my hand to play with his I was totally shocked yet i tried to fake it by pretending to be a sleep. I was shocked. It was the first time that happened to me. And i don't quite like it, well maybe a liitle, but no offense i like girls doing that to me than gay people. I faked my sleep so that we could treat each other like normal, because he thought i was unaware of what happened. Should i or should i not tell him that i knew what happened? Im quite anxious that we cant treat each other normally. I think of him as a brother bec. i don't have sisters or bros.


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    you could just try to ignore it

    BUT if he does it agian, it may be best to confront him, depending on his age, how old is he?? if younger, then it may just be curiousty, and he might not do it..

    if older, then I would talk to him, because it will probally make the relation ship un easy


    Hope that helps

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    ok, like the person above has stated, confront the person!

    but personally i do not belive this should be in this forum, i belive it should be in teen sexuality, or GC
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    Wait a little bit and see if you can find a time to bring such a thing up. It's definitely not something you want to get up and have a breakfest conversation too. However, if you're driving (assuming you have your license) him somewhere, I'm sure you could just so happen to ask, but put yourself in his position. Imagine you doing that to him and how embarrassed you'd be. Make him aware that you're aware, but don't make him feel bad or cry. But don't work up a speech and just say you don't want it to happen.

    The reason I say wait is because you want to know if this is going to happen again, though he could do it and you may not awaken. See if it does, but don't wait forever to see if it happens again, and don't loose any sleep over it.
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    Originally posted by DaHoldonBoi
    you could just try to ignore it

    BUT if he does it agian, it may be best to confront him, depending on his age, how old is he?? if younger, then it may just be curiousty, and he might not do it..

    if older, then I would talk to him, because it will probally make the relation ship un easy


    Hope that helps
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    It must be hard to ''pretend sleeping'' when someone is doing that to you. If I were asleep and someone would start touching me there.. I would jump out of bed so fast... not jus because I wouldn't want it, but also because I would be suprised.

    Anyways, If you didn't like what happenned, you should tell him because it's your body and you don't do something you don't like. I suggest that either you talk to him about it, or you avoid sleeping in the same bed as him again.

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    eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwww

    if i was you, i would tell your cousin that you know what happened, because if you don't he could do it again. he doesn't respect your privacy either.
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    I do not think you should ignore this situation. It'll just make matters worse.


    I suggest you talk to him alone, and tell him you were aware of the situation. But like this other guy said, don't make him feel embarassed or anything. Talk to him in a normal calm voice. I don't think you should ignore it.


    When you have the chance talk to the guy.

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    if you did not like it tell him right out that you do not like it and that he should never do it again.

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    I dont think this happened, but that's just my thoughts.
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    Why didn't you just roll over onto your stomach so he couldn't get at you? That would have put a quick end to the whole situation.

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    Originally posted by fireice986
    Why didn't you just roll over onto your stomach so he couldn't get at you? That would have put a quick end to the whole situation.
    Maybe then the guy would have tried to do something else.

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    Hmmm...well if this was a just a one time thing then I guess it's ok just to ignore it. But if he tries it again and you don't want him to do it then it's time to confront him.

    I'm wondering how he could have possibly thought you'd stay asleep if he played with your penis and took your hand to play with his? I mean come on, who'd be able to stay asleep through that?
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    Its not something that shouldnt be mentioned. I mean, It could happen again. Just talk to him calmly and discuss it calmly with him, prferably when you are both alone. This has happened to me before ironically with my cousin (maybe its something to do with dat). I did the same thing as you Rolled over that is. We're both the same age, so I found it a bit harder talking to him.
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    I agree wit DaHoldonBoi
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