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    So here's the situation. My cousin and I are close in age - I'm 16 and he turns 16 in 3 months. We have grown up together since we were born, hanging out, having sleepovers, and live only 10 minutes away from eachother. We both go to different high schools but still see eachother often due to family gatherings and such.

    Anyway, when we have sleepovers (which we still do) we usually talk about puberty and stuff. You know, the typical my-dick-is-huge or whatever. Sometimes we've stripped down to our boxer briefs just for fun while watching a movie or playing video games or even slept completely naked - in different beds of course. Basically, from the things we've talked about I'm pretty sure he masturbates and I'm almost positive he knows I do.

    Here's the problem, It's against our religion to masturbate and we both know it's wrong, so that's why that topic has never surfaced to it's full potential. However, I really want to bring it up and try masturbating while we have a sleepover sometime, maybe even together -not touching each other just at the same time in the same room- and I'm, again, 99% sure he feels the same way.

    Now for the question, do you think it's even okay for cousins, especially ones as close as we are, to do this? Has anyone else done it with a relative? I'm worried that if I try this, it will cause HUGE family drama if it doesn't go quite well. What should I do?


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    erm no

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    Masturbate by yourself first.

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    masturbate alone before you do it with him. Also talk about it first - athough i don't see a huge differance if itz a brother, cousin or friend you J/O with. Athough you might want to consider the religous consequences of your actions.
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    Sexual interactions with family never end up with a positive outcome. I advise against it.

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    I've edited your post, TreyD, to remove your asking of advice on how to get experimenting. We are not here to advise you on that sort of stuff, and whilst we're happy to give you information on acceptability of activities, we will not help you get into your cousin's pants.

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    I wouldn't do it... REASON: Things with your family.... =NO, NO!
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    AS long as you limit it at masturbating, it causes your relationship no real harm. Now if you take it to another level, that's something else.

    Another thing to think about is your religion. Are you really that devout to it? Would you obviously break the rules of your religion just for sexual pleasure?

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    Well, thats new. Im definitely saying NO dude. Completely against it. First of all you are cousins. Even if its not a man-woman interaction, its somewhat sexual; and something sexual which involves two individuals who are related to each other by blood, is a form of incest. And as we all know, incest is not good. Second, you mentioned that religion is involved. Maybe for others its a no brainer to do these stuff, i mean, its all part of puberty. But then you should consider the possible outcome of your actions.

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    Hey...I'm 16 and I jerk off with my brother who is 17, my cousin who is 16 and my best friend that is 16. We aren't gay and all have girlfriends but it's still fun to watch each other jack and it feels good too. We are all really close and it isn't weird or awkward at all for us. The hardest part is just makin sure we don't get caught by our rents. That would be embarassing and we'd prolly all get in trouble.

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    Im just gonna say no because family=fail
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brad! View Post
    Im just gonna say no because family=fail
    I am going to go with Brad on this, family sexual family interaction = bad news bears, because you have to live with it, and the choices you make with family members, for... well the rest of your life.
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    I'd say no due to your family situation and taking into acount your age and sexual experience level. Just play with yourself it's likely you won't be damned by having some "fun".

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    You're family! Definitely don't even talk about group masturbation with him!!!! Just keep it your little secret

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    What is your religion?

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